FE actor Kim Hye-ja vividly performs the helplessness of an illiterate old woman

Kim Hye-ja, a well-known evergreen actress in South Korea, plays the role of Xie Ji, who suffers from dementia and is afraid of dragging her son down in "My Dear Friends", or the illiterate mother Yu in the recent hit "Our Blues Time". In winter, they all express the appearance of a traditional mother very vividly.

Yudong's parents died when she was a child. She didn't have the opportunity to read and write. When she was a girl, she began to wash dishes in a restaurant. After marriage, her husband died early, and her two children were still young, as if copying her life. In order to make a living, she went to sea fishing as a sea girl and went to work in a slaughterhouse. Her life was still very difficult. Her daughter followed her to become a sea girl, but she died in an accident at sea.

In order to allow her only son to study, she became a concubine. She was humiliated and forced to endure. She only hoped that her son would not have to work, could read and read, and had three meals a day.​

However, the past past of the adolescence saw that her mother married the father who hated the classmates the most, and was often fierce by her classmates and brothers. Looked endured.

​Dong Xi's irritable resentment towards his mother came from the words in his heart that he couldn't ask his mother: Why don't you want me? Are men so good? You went to sleep with another man right after your sister left? I said I was going to do hard labor to support you, why don't you still want me?​

​Through the interaction with the divorced childhood sweetheart Xuanya, I slowly wake up to Dongxi, maybe my mother has a last resort.

Yudong, who is terminally ill, asks Dongxi to take her back to Mokpo, and the mother and son embark on a journey of "relief". Dong Xi only understood that her mother had worked hard all her life, lost her husband in middle age, and had difficulty getting enough food and clothing. She would rather sacrifice herself. She only hoped that her child could read and write, and not even know how to write a name like her. The last trip to Mokpo, let Dongxi finally know that he is deeply loved and reconcile with his mother before his mother's death.​

Watching movie and drama news reports, I learned that Kim Hye-ja’s family was wealthy. When she was a sophomore in high school, Jin Hye-ja participated in the KBS artist selection with her dream of being a star. Her family encouraged her to pursue her dream. He has won numerous awards on a variety of topics.

The background is completely related to illiterate, poverty, and helplessness, but Jin Huizi plays the helplessness and helplessness of an illiterate woman, especially her eyes are very expressive. That kind of look has been seen countless times in the eyes of my illiterate mother.

Moving from the mountainous area to the small town, the family has purchased small appliances such as washing machines and electric cookers. Generally, it is not difficult to operate small appliances. Knowing what it means, we have to explain it carefully, and after repeating the demonstration operation a few times, she can learn to use it. The washing machine is broken and updated. The device is too difficult to remember, usually only switches and front and rear turntables are used.

If I really can't learn it for a while, my mother will helplessly say: "I can't learn because I don't read and understand!" Because I can't take the bus or train, I can't go out on my own. The older I get, the more closed my life becomes. In my later years, I would sit at the door of my house looking at the passing cars and ask her, "Mom, what are you looking at?" I looked back at me, like Jin Huizi.

The mother, who suffered from severe diabetes, fell and fractured. She was bedridden for more than 10 days and her skin was red and swollen. She had to live in a nursing home. At first, she asked, "Is it a habit to live in? Is it okay?" There is also a way, your brother and the others are going to do business, and there is no one at home who can take care of me. Being married far away, I can't do anything. It's impossible to let go of work and family care. It's like coaxing a child to coax her mother: "You can walk by yourself and you can go home."

After returning home, falling and being injured, and staying in a nursing home, after repeated several times over four years, my mother lost her mobility and could no longer leave the nursing home. Before her death, she went back and forth between the nursing home and the hospital, helpless and helpless. His eyes became godless and left us.

Although my mother came from a farming family, my grandfather's family had a lot of fields, and she was considered a good farmer. She married to a poor mountainous area to have 8 children and support her grandfather. Her life was really hard.

Every look in Jin Huizi's eyes reminds me of my mother, and every time I look at her, I can't help crying.