Why does it seem better if you can't get it?
Time is a very interesting concept, past, present and future, the choices of the past will affect the present, the choices of the present will affect the future, in the future position, the present is also the past. So what did we not choose in the past to make us better?
People will always miss some strange things that don't belong to you originally, but if you are not greedy enough, you will imagine the most beautiful appearance of it, and then have it for you once.
This desire is not satisfied, so I regret it, but if I get it, I feel that it is nothing more than that.
This is a beautiful fantasy of youth and ignorance. If there is no fantasy, how boring a person's life will be. There are not many desires in human beings. They are nothing but food and clothing. After they are full and warm, they think of lustful desires. Once they are fully satisfied, they will find that life is tasteless.
And we are all enjoying ourselves in constant suffering.
What you can't get is better, it means that you have at least one, for you to compare, and this perfect fantasy in your mind is just a reminder to you, why didn't you get it in the first place? If you have this opportunity next time, will you miss it again? So in the next journey, you will be tempted by the radish above your head and run wild.
But if you don't get what you ask for, and you become delusional, it's boring. Why should you worry about something you can't get?
Two hunters beat their heads and blood because the geese in the sky should be stewed or fried. You know it's absurd, but the authorities are obsessed. A frame of nothingness can trap you and make you have inner demons, which is even more so. Ridiculous.
This sense of comparison is just your pursuit of the truth, goodness and beauty in your mind. The things fabricated in your mind are always good. If you can learn from it and strive for it after you can't get it, this is the best, and persuasion Self, desire, such as people in thorns, do not move without pain, do not worry about it, this is inferior.
And if you don't forget, but don't take action, that's the last resort.
Like my work? Don't forget to support and clap, let me know that you are with me on the road of creation. Keep this enthusiasm together!