Parents insist on doing the following things, and there will be "results" within half a year

Parents have always played an important role in the education of their children. Because behind an excellent child, there is usually a pair of responsible and educated parents. But some parents will say, I am very good to the child, but why is the child in a mess? Here I want to say that if parents are too good to their children, it is not conducive to the growth of children. So how easy is it to raise a child? If parents insist on doing the following things, there will be "results" in less than half a year.

Parents always take care of their children

There is a type of child that we always call giant babies when they grow up. Mainly because they are so well protected by their parents that they don't know how to do anything, and they habitually go to their parents to solve things. And parents are more than willing to do it themselves. I thought it was good for the child, but as everyone knew, it actually lost the child's ability to be independent.

My neighbor's child has been very good at studying since he was a child. In order to give him more time to study, his parents put food in his hands every day, but almost fed him into his mouth. Every day, the child studies late and wakes up in a daze. His parents are very distressed, so they insist on dressing the child. Now that the child has entered junior high school and started living in school, it is very miserable. Because the clothes are not well dressed and the bed cannot be made, he often turns to his classmates for help, and is ridiculed by everyone as a "giant baby".

Children's learning is important, and it is natural for parents to treat their children well. But if everything is done for the child, then the child will be like a crippled person in life, without any self-care ability. And such children, no matter how well they study, will be discriminated against in society.

Overprotective, can't bear to let the child suffer a little

A child is a piece of flesh that falls from a parent. On weekdays, it is too late for parents to spoil their child, so it is naturally impossible to see their child suffer. When a child suffers a little bit of hardship, the parents will feel very uncomfortable in their hearts. In fact, this is not necessary, because children can grow up only after experiencing wind and rain.

Zhang Man actually loves his daughter very much, but she understands that if she wants her daughter to be successful, she cannot be overly protective. When her daughter was learning to walk when she was a child, she fell and fell on the ground crying. Zhang Man never helped her and encouraged her to stand up bravely. As soon as her daughter went to kindergarten, she let the children sleep in separate beds and rooms. At first, the daughter was very scared and cried and shouted no. Zhang Man is not soft-hearted. Until now, my daughter has grown up and is very independent and can handle her own affairs.

And parents of children of the same age, every time they see Zhang Man's daughter, they envy their children's independence, because their children are too dependent on their parents. So you see, if you don't let your children suffer a little, then they don't have the courage and responsibility to bear the consequences.

The above two education methods are the consequences of over-indulgence and over-protection of children. Parents who do not have the heart to let their children suffer setbacks and hardships, educate their children in this way for a long time, and within half a year will inevitably train their children to be useless, making them lose their independence and self-solving ability.