unprofessional makes people happy

Not doing good work is often used as a derogatory term, but I often have some beautiful experiences of "doing good work" in my life, which not only makes people happy, but also improves the efficiency of "good work".

01 ​77

Uncle Zhao gave 77 a lot of toys, and when he got home, 77 dismantled the toys excitedly. Maybe it's the same mood as me when I unpack the package. I want to read every single one. After unpacking, she will have to paint for a while, stamp it for a while, build a building block for a while, and make a puzzle for a while. Every time I touched it, I didn't find anything, so I went to sleep.

I was a little angry, and noticed my inner thoughts. If I did this as a child, I would probably be beaten by my parents. Either I started scolding when I removed the second toy, and I didn't dare to remove it.

When I realized this, I was no longer angry. Toys belong to 77, she has the right to decide how to play.

Accompany 77 to play in the square, there are many stalls for children to play in the square. The first item 77 chose was to paint, and after about half an hour, she was going to go fishing next door. Several barrels of fish were caught, and the harvest was quite good. She still held the bucket and shook it a few times, indicating that the fish was cooked, and asked me to pretend to eat one.

When it comes to pretending, every time 77 plays the game of Jiajia, he will say, "Mom, you pretend to be a little bit." He is really a realistic and romantic baby, and he can have a lot of fun when he recognizes the truth.

After catching fish for half an hour, she ran to the toy stand again and chose a few toys for the boss to try for her. In the end, I chose a toy puppy that could walk and sing, with a rope on it, and walked all the way home.

It cost her a total of 35 yuan to make her happy all night. Give me 35 yuan, let me go out and buy happiness, what can I buy? I have to think about this issue.

Children's happiness is simple and cheap. Take advantage of this time to recharge the "happiness account", and in the future, when faced with "unsatisfactory life in all likelihood", only the capital can be used to pay the bill.

77 has full freedom to not do her job, so when she finds something she likes, she is so focused that she forgets to eat and sleep.

For example, once she wanted to wash the dishes, it was already 9 o'clock in the evening and I was very sleepy, but she insisted on doing the dishes. (I regretted that I didn't wash the dishes earlier 😂😂) Later, I helped her put on the apron and went to the room to rest.

As a result, after 2 hours, she came in to wake me up and said excitedly, "Mom! I've washed it!" I went out and saw that all the bowls were shiny and neatly arranged, and there was some foam on the stove. Wipe clean, her clothes are wet from outside to inside.

02 The days of students who are not doing their jobs properly

I remember when I was in high school, it was very stressful academically, and you had to spend a lot of time in the classroom whether you wanted to or not.

My little panda and I like to do things that have nothing to do with studying. We went to the radio station to be broadcasters, went to the student union for activities, wrote exchange diaries, sat and chatted on the lawn, and the most interesting thing was going to the playground on rainy days.

In high school, Little Panda was very good-looking, and she talked about love when she had time. I didn't meet a suitable love partner, so it's a pity that I didn't have any love experience in high school.

In the key classes of key middle schools, our grades are not top-notch. The teacher advised us: "If you can devote more energy to studying, you will study better."

The teacher is "good words to persuade", we didn't argue, just looked at each other, smiled and nodded. But we know what is really good for us.

Learning is stressful, and we are protecting our passion for learning and life in our own way.

Looking back now, should you really only focus on one thing at a time? In other words, do other things, other things that make you happy, must have a negative impact on that important thing? Is it possible to develop new hobbies and abilities?

My school days are over, and if I could start all over again, I would do more things to make myself happy. In this way, learning may be better.

03 Myself who is not doing my job properly

By my mother's standards, everything that has nothing to do with reading during the school days is not a proper job. After work, everything that has nothing to do with work is not a proper job.

Sometimes when I read at home, she would ask me seriously: "You are already working, why do you still read?" Two days ago, she saw me writing an article, and she also asked me seriously; "Your unit wants you Writing essays?"

There is such a formula in my mother's concept: study = endure hardship → diploma → work → not endure hardship = do not study

But reading is a very joyful thing. Not being able to enjoy the joy of reading is a big loss.

Nowadays, many people attach great importance to reading, so this hobby is more in line with mainstream values. If this doesn't count as "non-professional work", does this count?

Chasing stars, learning languages, watching videos, listening to audio, Taobao, handbooks, writing, walking, chatting, traveling, going to a cafe and looking at the pedestrians outside the window in a daze, going to the river and looking at the water in a daze, going to the balcony and looking at the distance in a daze, Staring at the ceiling in a daze. . .

Yes, I am a daze madman.

All of the above hobbies, currently unable to generate income, but they make me happy. Oh, by the way, I am very grateful to the partners in Matt City for giving me praise. I just learned about the operating mechanism of likecoin today, which is likely to generate income.

But as I told Xiao Panda before, I am not a professional writer and have no writing goals. I only record my real life and feelings, so this is a hobby that is not aimed at generating income. If it can generate income, it is purely accidental.

Everyone has their own talents, and it's often the things that you can continue to be passionate about, and the things that make you excel and make it easier to achieve worldly defined success.

Even without fame and fortune, continuing to inspire enthusiasm is already the greatest success in life.

If we let children experience and explore the world more at the stage of minors, without breaking the law and harming others, they are more likely to find their "gift".

When I was young, I didn't have so many opportunities to explore the world.

So I want to grow up again with 77.