Cherish flowers and pots

Have you ever heard of the Taiwanese proverb "Cherish the flowers and keep them in their pots"?

If you love flowers, you will also cherish the flower pot; it means loving the house and the bird.
Usually we would say: Cherish the flowers with their pots, cherish the flowers with their grandchildren. Loving someone also involves caring for the people or things related to them.

There is an aunt that Xiaolu knows. The relationship between her and her mother-in-law reminds Xiaolu of the saying "cherish the flowers with their pots"~

Let us first take a look at the new double-flowered Ririchun variety cultivated by National Chung Hsing University - Lucky, and guess whether the aunt and her mother-in-law get along well or not.

My aunt is filial, and she and her husband are very loving. They both respect and understand each other, but... my mother-in-law just doesn't like her.

People, sometimes it is so strange. You may not like what is good to you, but you are willing to pay a lot for what is not good to you... In short, the mother-in-law knows that this daughter-in-law is filial and will ask her to deal with any problems or illnesses, but she just doesn't I like it, I can't like it no matter what....

Of course, he won't abuse or demean his own wife, but it's always unpleasant to see the disgust on the face of the mother-in-law he takes care of...

The aunt told her husband that she would do everything she should do as a junior and daughter-in-law. She did it not because her mother-in-law was nice to her, but because she thought she had to do what a human being should do, so she still respects her and still treats her. My mother-in-law is kind. She is sick. She will take care of her when she has time. The two of us, no matter what the other sisters-in-law and uncles do, as long as it is what we should do for children, we can do it. People, always have to live up to their own conscience. .

Moreover, the relationship between her husband and her was also good. Just like this, until her mother-in-law passed away, her mother-in-law still didn't like her daughter-in-law, or say sorry...
The daughter-in-law also told her mother-in-law very clearly, "Mom, I know you don't like me, and I don't know what kind of fate we had in the past, so you don't like me. I just hope that if there is an afterlife in the future, we won't form a fate." .

In the end, the aunt also confiscated the leftover money left by her mother-in-law. She had already told her mother-in-law that everything left to her would be donated in her name to accumulate blessings for her. Interestingly, although her mother-in-law did not like her daughter-in-law, I love my daughter-in-law’s eldest daughter very much~

After she passed away, she gave her eldest granddaughter a dream, asking her to remind her daughter-in-law to remember to donate money for her: Your mother said she would donate in my name!

How should I put it... In fact, my aunt's life is not bad, it's just an elder who doesn't like me. We don't rely on her for food or clothing. My husband is good to me and my children are filial. My aunt has nothing to do with her mother-in-law. blame.

It's just that from an outsider's perspective, I can't help but think of the saying "cherish the flowers with their pots"...

Since you like your eldest granddaughter, why don't you love your daughter-in-law who gave birth to her eldest granddaughter more?

Or is it like the next sentence of "Cherish the flowers and the pots" and cherish the grandchildren? Because the wife is not married to the son he likes, he doesn't like her that much?

Of course, this is all the sighs of outsiders. As long as my aunt and her family are happy~

Finally, let’s take a look at the new double-flowered Ririchun variety cultivated by National Chung Hsing University - Flame.