Is reality always too hard? If I had a career counselor when I was looking for a job, the future would not be so "unreachable"!

In fact, from a very young age, the ideal career in my heart is to be able to do a job that I like, good at and passionate about. I always feel that if a person’s life is to spend at least half of his life working (please deduct those who are born with a golden spoon and marry a good person who can concentrate on taking care of the family), to be able to do what he loves and earn a living, and pursue his career What a blessing to grow and excel, and even to have a positive influence on others.

As the working hours are getting longer and longer, of course, I know how difficult it is. At the beginning, it is difficult to determine what I like or be good at; the second is that the things you like may not be directly converted into specific occupations; the third is the present You may not necessarily have relevant academic experience, and even if you have real strength or potential, the market may not accept you. Fourth, is there any way for the economy to allow yourself to take this great adventure in life before you truly achieve the job you want?

Everyone's definition of work is different, and it also has a lot to do with their own background, conditions and experience.

Some people just need to support a large family by themselves, and the financial burden is very large. It is a luxury if you want them to do the work they love;
Some people just don’t have any special interests, they just want peace and stability in life, and they don’t think it’s attractive to devote themselves to something and feel how attractive they are with progress and strength;
Some people just don't like taking hobbies as jobs, because they feel that once hobbies become jobs, they are no longer interesting.

There is no right or wrong in pursuit of life, but character does determine the scenery of life.

Have I succeeded in realizing my childhood dream of a career? It can only be said that it is still ongoing, and the road has been winding several times, and now it is getting closer and closer to the original blueprint.

Becoming a career counselor may be one of the successful practice projects for my ideal career role. Learn to use a rational and logical framework to help clients identify their own skills, interests, values, etc., supplemented by perceptual intuition as a psychological person, to listen to the other party's hidden and unspoken overtones and words. The meaning below is to try to give pertinent , non-critical advice, or just words of companionship and encouragement, or a sharp breakthrough in blind spots. , but the most lacking help.

Everyone, whether it is a freshman, a career changer who wants to explore more possibilities, or a professional who is forced to make a living, regardless of age or experience, will have a moment of confusion. What they need is not clichés, not experience, nor all kinds of preaching with colored vision, purpose or personal standpoint. What they want is just a person with a pair of listening ears, a professional brain, He also has a heart that is gentle enough to solve his full of doubts. Even, as long as someone listens, it is enough not to be refuted all the time.

Although sometimes I am annoyed by a small number of people who have no idea, passive, and don’t want to work hard at all, but most of the time, when faced with hesitant people in the workplace who really want to get advice or discuss with others, I will always give up. Consciously do everything in their power to help each other. I also know that this is probably the "compensatory effect" that psychology often talks about!

Life is actually very short. Instead of detouring and wasting energy and time on the career path, the focus is on the consumption of mental energy. Why not seek professional consultation! Hearing them get the answer, a light bulb seemed to light up on his head, "Aha", and the moment he happily said thank you, it was not so much vanity, but that thank you, which seemed to comfort me when I was helpless when I was young.

A person has a special burden and feeling for a certain type of work, which usually also represents the deep psychological mechanism behind it. There must be some reason that caused such cognition and created the current self. (Is it not self-analysis now?)

Actually, I want to introduce a song to you tonight. (Will it be too far off topic?)

I have always been the kind of person who has a job but no life. I always think about work in my life. It sounds like a workaholic, but it is really unhappy and abnormal.

A life without gaps made me forget that I actually like singing, music, and movies. It wasn't until a very accidental opportunity that I saw the show "The Year of the Singer" on TV that I discovered Zhou Shen .

Zhou Shen is one of my favorite singers from mainland China recently. His singing voice, personality, and the journey of becoming a singer are really suitable for writing a workplace discussion essay, which is very inspirational. I will sort it out for everyone when I have time. (Look, is it a goal-oriented personality that has been committed again? If you chase after stars, you must write an article)

Untouchable is the song of the same name in the movie. I won’t talk about the movie today. I mainly want to share it with you. In the journey of life, there will definitely be unsatisfactory or unsatisfactory things. When the tide is low, listen to Zhou Shen’s warm and clear singing, as if the battery is fully charged. Really invincible healing. I just want to say that life is inevitably at a low ebb, you must have a hobby, everything is good (of course, it must be legal), singing, writing, music movies, chasing dramas, painting... When you are in a irritable mood and don't want to do anything, you might as well let Throwing yourself into a hobby can help you get through that period.

At this time, let's come to the song "Unreachable"!

music, start~~~~

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