Two or three things when a divorce is agreed

2022/5/27

This should be the most stressful day for me in the past five years. I made an appointment at around 2 o'clock when my ex-wife went out and didn't say where to go, so I could only say something before he went out: don't forget it at 2 o'clock, he didn't bother The tone of voice replied: I will definitely be there. In a blink of an eye, I will arrive at 2 o'clock, and I also started to go to the place agreed with the lawyer. I was very nervous. After all, it was the first time to negotiate a divorce with a lawyer. Mindset, I didn't see my ex-wife appearing at the Starbucks door at 2:00. I thought he had run away, but when I went in and took a look, I found that he had already taken her cousin and sat upstairs. It turned out to be looking for rescue... Then My lawyer is here too, and today's negotiation will begin.

first round:

My lawyer asked her to tell her the conditions she asked for. Sure enough, the two children had to ask him for 30,000 yuan for alimony. Here is a popular science, and the alimony can't be shouted randomly. The law stipulates that it is calculated according to the average monthly consumption of the location. , I basically said that a child support fee in New Taipei is about 11,000 yuan. It is obvious that she does not know how to shout at 30,000 yuan. Because I was ready, I directly refused, and then asked a lawyer to explain the legal provisions to him. ,

Because his attitude is too bad, I am only willing to give him 10,000 plus the child's monthly insurance premium of 5,000 (I have been paying for all these years). She still refused, and then she was very unhappy and thought about raising a child without money. Murmur ...(Actually, this round is just a repeat of what we failed to negotiate last time)

second round:

In fact, after his request was so exaggerated last time, I decided to snatch all the children back, because I thought at first that even if his income was 30,000 yuan with me, it would be difficult to maintain the current quality of life. Just if he wanted to rent a house, he would basically pay for it. The alimony he asked for has been spent. This round, I want two children, but I only asked him for 20,000 yuan. He insisted that the child should pay his mother. My lawyer asked him what was the reason for this? He only came back...because dad couldn't accompany his daughter through adolescence...the scene where he started getting a little hysterical before he replied, but after I listened to him, I looked at the dumbfounded lawyer next to me, I I feel that the anger has subsided... My lawyer was stupid for 3 seconds and replied to him, ㄜ... Miss Judge will not accept this kind of reason... To be more specific, there are many single fathers who can still raise their daughters of,

I also put forward the condition that I give him the two children, that is, she will tell me the specific plan for the future of the two children. If I think it is very feasible, then I will be willing to give the child to him to raise, but she said After the previous adolescent was beaten in the face, he began to show his face in silence. Later, my lawyer and I told him to ask him to tell him his plan.

He didn't speak, he left it all to her cousin to help him speak, and said that they only knew today that the child would not talk to them. This sentence is even more ridiculous. When he asked for such exaggerated conditions, I said that I would take two The custody of the children was seized. I said this at the beginning, and then my ex-wife's brain automatically cut me off. What I said did not exist, and his claim has always existed. After spending a little time to sort out this logic, my lawyer I still hope that my ex-wife can express some opinions, but he still said nothing and finally said that he wanted me to leave and talk to my lawyer alone,

So I left the table for about 10 minutes, and the lawyer came and asked me to go back to continue the negotiation. After returning, they still insisted that they only knew today that they would be separated from the children, so they asked them to think about it for seven days. This is a bit ridiculous, so I insisted. If there is a result today, and explain it to them, how could it be possible that you only found out today, when you got divorced, you should have taken all the circumstances into consideration, if you only think about the reason that the father can't accompany the girl through adolescence , then given you a year, you still have the same idea, because you and Ben don't take this matter seriously, and even you only think about the development of this matter according to your own ideas. After more than an hour, my lawyer said that it's better to take a 10-minute break and then we can continue.

Third round:

Before I went upstairs again, my lawyer told me that he had never seen such a rude person. He didn't speak with his feet up and stinky throughout the whole scene. He really had never seen someone who agreed to divorce and did not speak so arrogantly, but the lawyer said He felt like he was about to give up because she was crying when I just left and said she really didn't expect it to change like this, and the lawyer said that no matter what, it was overtime, but she would still help me with this,

We went upstairs, and she finally knew the fact that he was unable to take custody of the two children. I really appreciate the lawyer letting him know about his lack of ability, but in turn, she saw her true face, when I When she asked for 20,000 alimony, she spoke. She said that I didn't have that much income and I couldn't give it. It seems that the lawyer really played a role. She cut it down to 10,000. Actually, I wanted to agree, but she His attitude made me feel that he didn't take this matter at all, so I deliberately refused to accept the offer of 15,000, and he refused again with the expression that I had no money, and was still making a lot of excuses, but I knew she had asked for it. She gave in, and finally I said 12,000 to the bottom line that I can accept (that 2,000 is for his attitude today), she nodded, and I gave him the authority of visitation to the maximum legal limit, and let him He stayed for an extra month to give him time to find a house. After signing it later, he also asked an easter egg, so do I have to pay tax on the alimony I paid? Wow... Her cousin used to be an accountant and I directly asked him how much tax he would pay for 144,000 a year? Yes, her cousin was also dumbfounded.