Children must be shocked when their parents are having an affair! ?

Recently, I occasionally watched the Taiwanese drama "Marriage Completion Ceremony" episode by episode. Through the various life crises faced by a group of high school classmates who reunited after 30 years, they explored mature love and family issues. The drama integrates into many modern society. Phenomenon: death marriage, fake marriage, unemployment of the other half, love fraud, etc.

The plot shuttles between high school and now 30 years later. There is no other young actor to perform in the student days. The actors in their 40s and 50s are still dressed in uniforms to perform. The appearance is a bit inconsistent, but from cost savings and In terms of appearance and inertia, it barely makes sense.

The children of both sides witness the affair

In the eighth episode, "A Cheng" played by Xie Zuwu and "Mei Hui" played by Zhang Benyu, the old love revives, the children of the two find them embracing at the pier. "Meihui"'s young daughter in high school was very resilient, and asked her mother not to be with "Acheng"; "Acheng"'s son in high school also hoped that his father would turn back and work with his mother to find a way to get him to get rid of the idea of divorce.

The 24-year-old eldest daughter of "Meihui" learned from her boyfriend that her mother and "Acheng" had a deep relationship in high school, but they separated due to a misunderstanding. She also looked at the hard work of her mother going to the supermarket to support the family after her father lost his job, and the lack of marriage in the relationship. Being cherished, on the contrary, I can understand my mother, and even encourage my mother to pursue true love.

Children are too calm in the drama

In elementary school, middle school, and high school, they are ignorant about relationships and marriage. You can imagine how big the impact will be if you find out that your father or mother is having an affair. In the play, the youngest daughter of "Meihui" and the son of "Acheng", who found out that her parents are having an affair, don't seem to have any struggle. , it is a bit unreasonable to tell my father and mother about the affair scene I bumped into.

A friend's daughter finds out that her father is having an affair

My friend's daughter is quirky and quirky. In middle school, she often steals the Internet sharing function of her father's mobile phone to surf the Internet. She accidentally sees her father using LINE to have a sexual conversation with an aunt in the community. She struggled and worried for a long time. She also felt that her father, who had loved her very much since she was a child, could betray her mother and do such a dirty thing. She was distressed for more than a week, and finally told her friends about it.

The relationship between the friend and the husband has faded, and the daughter already knows that the relationship between the two is not on good terms. She originally wanted to take advantage of this to discuss divorce, but the husband denied cheating, claiming that it was just a joke, insisting that he would not sign the divorce, and the marriage relationship was barely maintained.

In the previous article "Mental and physical encounters that are more serious? " , Matt City's literary friend Red responded: "Is that serious? I don't know, but what I know is that neither of them will happen to me. This is not how pure and high I am, but I am responsible for myself. If you choose marriage restraint, you have to be loyal to each other.”

That's right! Taking responsibility for your own actions is an attitude that adults should have.

It is not easy to stick to the belief in marriage

However, after seeing too many things in the world, I understand that no matter men or women, they don’t necessarily understand what marriage means, so they enter marriage. Faced with all kinds of hardships in life and work, all kinds of temptations in life, the other half’s disorder or selfishness, it is necessary to It is even more difficult to restrain itself from holding on to the belief of being responsible for marriage from time to time.