Thirty and thirty

Taking advantage of the two-week long vacation, I watched a total of 43 episodes of the Lu drama "Thirty Only". When we were students, we could choose the only solution in multiple-choice questions; when we entered the society, we were forced to choose among complicated options to find the best solution for the current time and space environment. The play is based on three good friends: Gu Jia (a full-time housewife who has been working hard to make her family squeeze into the upper class), Zhong Xiaoqin (OL petty bourgeoisie), and Wang Manni (a senior salesman in a luxury store). Every person, every couple, every family will encounter all kinds of difficulties that outsiders cannot see. Others are not without difficulties, they just didn't tell you.

Gu Jia and his wife, who moved into a mansion and looked bright and beautiful, were often troubled by the company's operating turnover. Xu Huanshan changed from a pyrotechnic designer to the owner of a fireworks company under the expectation of his wife Gu Jia. Even though he had a beautiful title, he lost the joy of purely creating fireworks. Once Xu Huanshan stepped on a landmine that had cheated on him, and after being reminded by the object of his affair, he looked back and saw that he was living in the character set by his wife and lived an unhappy life. In a relationship, if you hide your feelings and don’t express them in order to make the other person happy, it will snowball and get bigger and bigger, until it’s too late to discover the problem.

Zhong Xiaoqin's husband, Chen Yu, is not good at expressing himself. Even though he has done a lot of things for his beloved wife, Xiaoqin doesn't understand why he only cares about the fish he raises after marriage: the problem is that the husband is unwilling to express, and the wife is unwilling to care and ask. It wasn't until she started to take care of her life after the divorce that Xiaoqin realized that "the trivialities in life will cut off a person's brilliance." From couples to couples, it is easy to change from the hot relationship at the beginning, to each other as time progresses. The trivialities of life wear away romance. A good business knows how to manage customer relationships. Couples and couples are the most important people next to each other, isn't it? Running a relationship isn't just about a birthday meal, it's about making your partner feel that you value each other in your daily life. People are difficult to change, but people can learn and grow. After Xiaoqin and his wife divorced and experienced some incidents, they learned from each other how to improve and think about each other's feelings more, and finally remarried and lived a happy and happy life again.

Wang Manni finds the coveted Gao Fushuai, but turns out to be a scumbag. After changing jobs and returning home, I finally understood what I wanted and stepped out of my comfort zone to pursue my new goals.

No matter whether you are 30 or not, the first difficulty is knowing what you want, the second difficulty is daring to pursue what you want, and the third difficulty is getting people around you to support and assist you with what you want. "Thirty Only" has thought-provoking points in enterprise risk management, relationship management, (to prevent XD) derailment, communication, life planning, and dreams. It is recommended to watch.