Sharing Xiaotiandi (3) "Can you understand why children cry? 』

I believe that every parent will be very frightened when they hear the cry of their child, right ? Especially after working all day and feeling tired and hearing the cry of the child, it will inevitably increase the irritability of parents. Today, mynae Oli is going to share the parenting knowledge that I heard from the radio station in the morning. 【 How much do you know about the crying of children? 】

The cutest look of a child is when he sleeps. (I believe that parents will raise their hands and feet to agree with my statement). Just think back, could it be that adults have too many negative thoughts about [ Children Cry ]? For example, hearing a stranger's evaluation of your child: Why does your child cry so often? Why does your child cry right away when he sees a stranger? How do you usually teach your children? The 'care' given by too many [ enthusiastic people ] around me will only invisibly increase the pressure on parents.

According to the sharing of parenting experts, [ crying is a normal way for children to express their emotions ]. The first part of a baby's brain to develop is the emotional part. It is very normal for babies from 0 to 3 years old to lose their temper, play with temper, and cry. This is because the prefrontal lobes of the baby's brain are not fully developed, so they cannot control their own small emotions like adults. In other words, crying is the only way babies use to communicate with their parents. We have also been babies, children, so we should be heart-to-heart. Adults can also get emotional, let alone children.

baby's world :

I'm hungry and want to drink Nainai - I cry

wet diaper and poop - i cry

I want a hug from my parents - I cry

How to deal with crying baby/child (1-4 years old)?

1. First of all, parents must keep calm and never lose their temper. We can often see in news reports, for example, babysitters, parents who can't bear the cry of the baby, they also go berserk, resulting in a family tragedy of pinching the baby to death.
2. Hold on tight and tell your child how you feel. When children cry, parents should hold on to them due to their lack of language skills. A hug from a parent can soothe a child's restless emotions. Parents are the closest and most trusted people to children. In addition to playing the role of parents, parents are also teachers and friends of their children's preschool education. The language ability of children aged 1-3 is only 1/3 that of adults. At this time, parents need to guide children to express their inner feelings.

For example: You can ask the child if he wants the toy because he wants it? If so, nod your head to let Mommy know. Baby doesn't like this dress? Shake your head to let Daddy know. Do you want to eat another apple? If yes, nod your head.

I still remember a family dinner where I saw a pair of parents bring a pair of little brothers to the restaurant for dinner. My brother is about 4-5 years old and can eat quietly. On the contrary, the younger brother (about 1-2 years old) cried and yelled the whole time, and his parents ignored it . As long as the child cried and shouted, I saw the mother stuffing food into the child's mouth, and after eating, the child continued to cry and scream. The whole process is repeated, which affects the dining mood of other guests. I really don't agree with the way parents are dealing with it right now.

It's not that children don't understand, but how their parents teach them. I like children very much, and every time I see a child, I will unconsciously overflow with maternal love. I still remember one time, having fun with my friend's son. He is only 1 year old, but he can fully understand the instructions given by adults. I did an experiment with him right now. I said: Bo Er, please bring that toy to my sister. His first reaction was to look at me dumbfounded. I repeat my instructions again, patiently to him. Fingers indicate which toy it is. He literally handed me the toy. Parents’ body language can also have an impact on children. Bullying doesn't solve the problem.

Being a parent is not easy.

Hope the enthusiasts don't give 'too much' care and don't meddle in the way parents educate their children.

I hope that everyone will want to share with the starling Xiaoli.

I will continue to work hard to bring you more knowledge to share.