Weird things that have happened to dating apps recently

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There should be a lot of people using dating apps, right? Recently, due to work reasons, I want to compare several rammers on the market. I also encountered a strange rake. In fact, after using it for a few weeks, everything I encountered was quite normal. When I met one the day before yesterday, I said to me If you get divorced, you won't be looking for friends(?), just the beginning of this sentence makes me very confused. Isn't it normal to make friends? Then I started to say that love in the world is temporary, you should take care of yourself, don't think you are fine here (????), it is very interesting to meet such a person, because of the privacy of dating software, he is in She hid me after criticizing me with a bunch of her own opinions.

After thinking about it later, it is not all wrong that she said, but too much bias is in the front-end part of the matter. In fact, as the lawyer told me in the past, there is no need to be held accountable. The key is how to solve the current state of a relationship. It really depends on how two people communicate. I chose to divorce because of the situation where I couldn't communicate. This netizen said that I didn't think about it clearly and didn't plan to get married, and now I left. It should also be worse, making the child very pitiful. I do not deny that marriage requires a little impulse, but I am not proposing in public, and the plan to have a child has been communicated by both parties. In fact, the plan will never keep up with the changes, the point In whether you can accept the changes that change your plan, and come up with the corresponding ways.


It's bad for the children, of course it will, but I don't think it's better for them to live in a family with the illusion of peace. My biggest impression of this marriage is to communicate. Say your own opinions and then think carefully about what the two sides are saying to achieve a balance. My ex-wife just doesn't want to listen to and insist on her own opinion. Even if this idea is told to 10 people, and 3 people agree with him, he still thinks it is right. , I think there is nothing right or wrong in things, we just have to find the best solution at the moment, but when she insists that the constant idea is the best solution, the meaning of communication is lost.


Then he also mentioned the issue of maturity. He felt that it was because of my immaturity that my marriage became like this. She couldn't answer either, saying that I'm not responsible for the child? So why am I taking child custody? It is true that no one is fully mature. Things in life will make you mature slowly. He only knows about my marriage. I only wrote the word divorce. Even if he said he wanted to tell him something about the situation, let him judge. , he still said to himself, there is a feeling of my ex-wife emerging at the moment, expressing his own opinions regardless of what others think, in fact, to be ruthless, I dumped both children to her, in all fairness, the monthly income is 33k What kind of quality of life can a child have in terms of renting a house in Danshui with a deposit of less than 300,000 yuan?


In fact, this netizen has taught me a lesson (but I just think he is venting her opinions about my divorce writing...), but it also reminds me of a lot of things from the past, Why did you make that kind of decision in the past? The past can’t be changed, it’s just the experience. You need to deal with the present first before you have time to use the past experience to plan the future, right?

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