Don't let fractions define your child

When I saw a number of wish cards written by students who had just entered Primary One, all of them said "I hope Keke gets a perfect score", my nerves were suddenly touched, and then my heart was terrified.

Regardless of whether the willingness to get full marks is due to the child's personal will or the expectation that parents impose on the child, this good wish still makes me extremely uneasy. Imagine the pressure these children will endure in their long academic careers, and I will Couldn't help taking a breath.

If Keke can get full marks, who is willing to hold eggs? If holding eggs is too extreme, then a full score is just the other extreme. From this end to the other, there are many students whose grades are neither good nor bad. Some of these students try hard to achieve full marks, but some have no concept of grades, and some feel that there is a review test before the test. It is good to have an answer.

Students seek high scores, and parents want their children to excel and excel, but each student has different aptitudes, interests, and effort, so the scores are of course different. Sometimes parents can't control their children's grades no matter how hard they try, but the point is that no matter what grades your child achieves, your child is still your dearest and most loved child. If you make yourself hysterical because you are too concerned about the child's grades, yell at the child, and finally destroy the parent-child relationship, it is not worth it. When the child grows up, you will not remember his score in a certain test, but he may For the rest of your life, remember the cruel words you once said because of a certain score.

Children are growing up all the time. We should not draw conclusions casually for children, and we must not define children by scores. A perfect score in a test cannot guarantee that a child will grow up and stand out, and a poor grade does not mean that he is useless. The quiz test only assesses the student's understanding and familiarity with the teaching content, and has nothing to do with the child's character.

Keke's full score is a confinement spell, which makes the child's emotions tense, and also makes the parent-child relationship tense. I don't want you to let your child's grades go unnoticed. Instead of blindly pursuing high scores, it is better to explore your child's expertise, cultivate their character with heart, and let your child become a good person on his own.

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