Popular divination | Your characteristics in relationships ❣ What do you need to pay attention to? How to do better?

Hello everyone, this is Goldfish. This divination is written in a state of being a little drunk😄 
The content will be a bit real. If there is less modification, in fact, I have experienced the three states myself. I have written guidelines with Tarot and oracle cards. Hope it helps 🍷

• Go to a place where there is no distraction, take three deep breaths, repeat the question, and choose one of the options in the picture below.
• The public divination gathers the energy of many people, just read the required part.

pile No.1

You are a well-protected person from birth, and you have a lot of resources in your native family. Therefore, your current life development should be good, at least very stable, and there will not be too many financial difficulties.

However, people seem to yearn for something they have not experienced before, and you put the position of your emotions more important than money.

You are born to guard the people and things around you, you will regard the difficulties of your partner as your own difficulties, and you will take responsibility for it. This is your nature that will never change. The concept of protecting, maintaining, leaving something in place is something you are good at, but it is also an ability that can cause problems.

You can choose a partner whose values are similar to your own, but the human heart can never control its changes. Once there is friction in your relationship, the first thing you think of is your own problems. Even if it is unreasonable, you will change yourself so that your partner Staying in that position, being your partner can be a treat.

The most important thing to pay attention to is your fixed concept. Most of the people who can persevere are a bit stubborn and do not listen to persuasion. But in order to heal yourself, you have to accept ideas that are beyond your reality.

The things that can hurt you must be outside the standard you can endure, so the healing must also come from outside the scope of your own understanding. Try to dissolve your external boundaries and examine what I want and what I don't want, so that you can live more freely.

If your object has an "impulsive" or "compulsive" personality, please evaluate your abilities and choose carefully. You know that your tolerance range is not as wide as you think, so you will surround yourself in a circle, like trapping yourself, even if it is an important person, you must learn to refuse what you don’t like or don’t want.

pile No.2

This group feels to me like migratory birds that need to migrate with the environment. You are a very smart person, you have been very good at surviving in the cracks since you were a child, and always know how to avoid trouble.

You will think that many things are dangerous, and you have to be very tight at any time, otherwise the things you have will go with the wind. The lack of trust in the outside world will extend all the way to the inside, and you will often wonder why you can have it, and many reasons that don’t need to be asked will sprout in your heart.

Therefore, in a relationship, you don't always trust each other enough, and you will feel that you must have a very enviable appearance or deep pockets, or even a famous professional title, so that your partner may never leave you.

There doesn't seem to be a place in your heart that can make you feel safe, and a single thought at any time can overwhelm your rationality and drive you into madness. You work very hard to take every step on this journey to find a safe place for yourself, but this is not something you can find. Because He has always been your starting point and has never left.

Frankly speaking, every step you take is very difficult, and you never know if your next partner will give you a sense of security. Gambling in your heart is not fun at all, and you have no capital to spend indiscriminately. Every breakup can drive you crazy because everything is lost.

The only thing you have to pay attention to is that anything of value comes from yourself, and you are a safe place, a refuge, a sweet home. It is not courage to be able to give, but courage to take back, because you value yourself enough.

pile No.3

Your sixth sense is very sensitive to people's emotions and thoughts. The ability of people close to you to know what they are thinking without words is very painful for you now.

You are a sensitive person, and you can’t treat the things you feel as air. You will take action to check whether your feelings are right or not. Before you prove it, you will feel very uneasy, and you will make up some terrible results by yourself.

In a relationship, you are very protective of your partner, so to speak, to the point where you need to master all his actions. You are like a loving mother and father with a circle of radiance behind you, you can be meticulous to your partner.

In fact, what you protect is not the partner itself, but more of the desire to protect yourself.

You often blackmail each other emotionally and feel that it is dangerous for your partner to gain a certain degree of freedom, but in fact you are tying up your partner's freedom as well as giving up your own freedom.

I hope that the other party can care more about him. The momentary angry words are the fuse of the quarrel, and he will blame himself afterwards. There is no way to assess how much you should give in this relationship. Sometimes you give more to keep the other person, and sometimes you give less to want to be noticed, making it difficult for you to get along.

Your mind should not be your stumbling block. People who become great because of wisdom also suffer because of wisdom.

In fact, you have imposed too many roles on yourself, so you don’t need to pay too much attention to other people’s feelings. Delicate thoughts should be of better use, for example, to remove the labels you put on yourself. Your definition of yourself constrains your thinking and actions, liberating those social roles and integrating into one you is enough.