Timeliness of small talk words
How long do you think a sentence can be remembered?
Because of this question, Xiaolu is scheduled to go to a book club in October to give a lecture on the theme: the power of words.
But later, because there were consecutive holidays this week, many people had to go out to play or go home, so the reading club was cancelled~
But..., I have read a lot of books related to parenting education and language...
Like this one: Education starts with changing your tone of voice. 31 key sentences for educating children to start a "positive life"
This book is personally recommended by Xiaolu. It is easy and pleasant to read. It is easy to understand with illustrations and examples. The key point is that the suggestions are practical and simple. Parents will agree with them after reading them, and they can also do a little self-reflection. The above contents are all small things that we encounter in our daily life, so it is quite familiar. It is a parenting education book for learning how to speak well.
There is another book, which I highly recommend. I can’t find where to put it now... I’ll let everyone know when I find it~
Back to the topic, how long do you think a sentence can be remembered?
This is what happened to Xiaolu when he was in kindergarten. It happened a long time ago, but I still remember it and am grateful to this day~
At that time, Xiaolu’s mother had to ride a bike to work at 6 o’clock every morning. She still remembers that it was an old car that looked like a Vespa. Once when Xiaolu was playing with the neighbor’s children, a person whom Xiaolu considered a good friend was also Xiaolu’s best friend. A child who likes to play with her told everyone: "Her mother's engine is so noisy every morning that it wakes up our family."
At that time, Xiaolu didn't know how to reply to this sentence. He felt that his family was causing trouble to others, and he also felt that you thought of our family so much! It turns out that you don’t like me as much as I like you. Don’t underestimate children’s self-esteem and face. We will get hurt. At the same time, our relationship is so good. How can you dislike my family’s hurt feelings? At this time, another Xiaolu compared The child who didn't like it that much spoke up: "Her mother has to go to work! And the time is just up, so what does it matter if she starts and leaves immediately."
After so many years, Xiaolu still remembers his gratitude at that time. Thank you to that child for helping me out. Thank you for her consideration and understanding. Thank you for letting me learn not to care about other people’s unintentional actions. Thank you for letting me learn to be considerate of others. Difficulties in life, thank her for making the little deer in kindergarten feel warmth and tenderness.
One sentence, just a light and weightless sentence, makes me remember it until now, and it also affects me until now.
So, how long can a sentence be remembered?
Attached is a vegetarian restaurant I went to yesterday that recently opened. There was no one inside... I am worried that it will not last long...
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