Life anecdote | I'm sorry, I won't dare next time.

This article, written to my friends A and M, I am often a friend who is only on the edge of passing, and sometimes even a failing friend.
Included "I'm sorry, next time, I don't dare." , "Work and dorm" , those things that we are 10,779 kilometers apart

Sorry, next time, I don't dare.

Me, A, and M have known each other for more than half of our lives since we met in middle school.

M is currently working in the United States. Since Taiwan was on alert level 3 last year when the epidemic was severe, I was really bored at that time. We met to pick 1-2 holiday moments every month and have a video chat. This habit continues to this day.

Because of the time difference between day and night, A and I are mostly in Taiwan time, Saturday and midnight, at 12:00 in the night, and M's side at 7 or 8 in the morning in the United States. Three people came to video.

I said, I'm just a friend on the verge of passing.

It's twelve o'clock in the middle of the night on Saturday. Although the holidays are theoretically very late and reluctant to sleep, in theory, they must be able to obediently participate in the online trash talk caring for friends conference , but I am a sloth , sometimes... I am At eleven o'clock on Saturday night, I will fall asleep first, then fall asleep, and finally fall asleep.

Just—missed the online meetup.

A and M are the most reliable friends. A few times when I fell asleep and didn't attend the party, they would always call me first, trying to wake me up——

Aha, how could I possibly be called up! ! !

(※Please refer to " Life Interests｜Bad Sloth " article)

I'm sure, slept dead.
Sometimes, I wake up at two or three in the morning, only to see that my Line has missed calls, and the online party has already ended.

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One day at the end of June, I fell asleep in front of the video again and missed the party.

Maybe I subconsciously feel very at ease. My friend understands me, loves me, tolerates me, and treats me well . I just fell asleep like this and just missed an online meeting. It doesn’t affect our friendship at all, I know.

When I woke up at five in the morning, "Sorry, I know I missed the party again" , I was a little annoyed, but I didn't seem to be really worried.

A friendship that is familiar, trusting, and dependable is nothing more than that.

I swiped off my phone, ready to apologize for not participating in the online party, I was surprised that no one called and tried to wake me up this time, I clicked on Line, no one was looking for me, I saw that there was only one new notification in our group of three, Paste it on Notepad:

 【Sports Convention】 
★ Be sure to exercise ten times a month (four weeks)★ Take certified photos and upload to the group

What is this small,
I just missed a party, how come there is a sports convention all of a sudden,
Also ● to ● be ● fined ● money! ! !

I was drowsy and terrified.

Later, throughout July, I did yoga, rode a flywheel, and went to the riverside for a run. I was exhausted. Finally, I finally managed to save a thousand dollars by exercising.

I swear I will try my best not to fall asleep or miss any online gatherings with A and M in the future,

I'm sorry, I'll be there next time,
I'll stop this runaway convention! I'm sorry, I don't dare to do this anymore! ! !

Later, in the online meeting in July, I did not have one, and I dared not go to...

2022.06.19

work and dorm

In July, on the holiday night, it's time for me, A, and M, who is far away in California, USA. The video of the three of us is trash talk time.

(Now that you know, I will never miss a video with my friends again.)

Let's talk about A first. After she had surgery for gallstones, she quit her high-pressure job. She is currently idle at home to allow herself to take a long vacation and take care of her body by the way.

The sloth goes to work every day, working conscientiously and diligently , and watching A idle like this, I am envious, jealous, and mentally unbalanced.

A: "Please, I'm very tired and busy at home all day now. My mother has resumed the mode of shredding. I have to do a bunch of housework, wash the whole family's clothes, wash the whole family's dishes..."

A continues to hold (hyun) resentment (yao) out loud:

"I'm literally 'working and sleeping' at home!!!"

Jealousy has already made me ugly, and at the same time made me more awake.
I sneered in front of the screen and said embarrassingly:

"Work-for-lodging, basically, as long as you are working and renting an apartment to pay rent, it's all a kind of "work-for-lodging"!"

M, who worked hard in the United States to pay the expensive rent in California, showed an expression of "I don't know whether to laugh or cry".

Working hard to pay the rent turns out to be a work-for-lodging exchange.

The romantic life is not far away, twisting one's own mind, and it's instantly close at hand.

2022.07.30

Thank you for your life.

Often times, I'm just on the edge of passing, and life always pawns me (of course it could be that I almost pawn me),
But as these unimportant, nutritious, messy little moments overlap in life,
Gradually, it seems that those who failed, just passed, high scores, and perfect scores have become insignificant.
Only because of all these laughter and laughs and mutual friendly mockery,
With you in life, it doesn't matter how many points he scores.

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