How do dating apps chat? Watch this get you nowhere

Read the other person's self-introduction, photos and PO texts to find some "keys". If you can't think of any questions even with these clues, it means that the relationship with this person will basically not last long. I think the beginning of getting along with people starts with "exploration", "connection", and "curiosity". These directions are used to find "common ground". The closer the "common ground" is to "thinking" and "easy reply", the opening remarks are The best way to say hello.

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Although there is no guarantee that it will be absolutely effective, a few commonly used opening tips for making friends and chatting can still be tried. It is better than doing nothing at all. In short, after saying "hi" and "hello" and other greetings, you can start to discuss the "common ground" between the two parties. Here are the parts to pay attention to:

1. From the other party's self-introduction, photos, and PO text content, it is also the part of your interest to trigger the other party to "be noticed", but don't keep complimenting the other party's figure and appearance, which makes you appear superficial.

2. Find the same preferences as yourself, from food, music, leisure activities, movies, reading, sports...etc, and extend related topics, experiences, sharing...etc.

3. If you think you are quite humorous, you just say some funny questions and answers. Recently, many people will imitate "King Potter's dry words", which may make people want to choke you and reply.

4. From the perspective of values, you can arouse each other's thinking. Only with good communication can you find a friend that really suits you.

5. Never do a net worth survey and ask unhelpful questions, like what job do you do? where to live? Live alone? Or how much is your monthly income? This kind of personal question can be uncomfortable even if asked by someone you meet for the first time, so it's better not to ask.

6. Don't ask for line or other communication software at the beginning, let's chat on the dating app first!

Remember this "six don't"

There are so many topics to talk about, dressing up, horoscopes, bullshit, food, embarrassing things, reading, acting, entertainers, cool things you've done recently... and so on, but there are a few things to keep in mind at the beginning of the chat. Big takeaways:

1. Don't show off or preach, create empathy by sharing

2. Don’t keep talking about yourself, listen and be curious about the other person

3. Don’t keep asking the other person questions, let the other person have time to get to know you

4. Don't turn hello after three meals into a boring routine, make chats more fun and exciting.

5. Don't just post stickers or links, share ideas and stories.

6. Don't just go along with each other, express your opinion.

There are more and more people using dating apps, but there are still not many people who successfully make friends on it. Usually, they are announced to be out of the game after saying hello. It may also be because of their photos, self-introductions, and unclear Po texts or citations. Pay attention, there are many possibilities, but the most interesting thing about dating software is that in the vast crowd, there will still be people who match you, who may become friends, partners, or a relationship that matches the two.