See the goddesses in real life from the Japanese drama "The Goddess Who Lost Their Names"—The entanglements and knots of kindergarten mothers

In 2011, "The Goddess of the Name" (Chinese translation, the goddess who lost her name), starred by powerful actresses such as Xing, Ryo, Ono Machiko, Kimura Yoshino, etc., became a hit and caused a lot of discussion in the society.

This is a story about a group of kindergarten mothers who are usually happy, but intrigue in private. At the beginning of the story, the mother played by Youshi Anda was forced to attempt suicide because of bullying and other issues, and there were also terrible plots such as helping to send letters under the guise of kindness, but tearing up the application form of the other child's school.

At that time, I was holding Yang Ping, and it was just like watching a play, and I felt that it had nothing to do with me. I didn't expect that a few years later, the people around me would be even more exciting than those in the series.

Actually, I haven't thought about these people for many years. Today, as soon as Yohei rushed home, he asked me, "Mom! Chiba Kazuta is coming to play at home, can you?"

This is the first time Yangping has asked me this. Usually, he would never report what kind of friends he would bring to his house. Obviously, my son is always paying attention to my emotions and words.

Ah..., Chiba Kaze too?

I haven't heard the name in a while, and my mood is like a whirlpool of black coffee.

The name Chiba Futa brings my mind back to a few years ago....

Yangping is 3 and a half years old. Every morning, the kindergarten baby carriage will pick him up from the downstairs of the building. We have 4 families here.

Me and the Sugiyama family brought Yohei from the small class.

The Kimura family brought the Taipan's Sota.

The Chiba family brought Fengta from the same small class.

The Takano family brought Miko the same age as Yohei.

In the busy morning every day, all kinds of mails from the four households are ringing on the mobile phones, "Today, when I go out, Mrs. Sa is going to take a tuba...", "It's too late to get up today...", "I drive it today...",,

"Okay, I'll tell the doll teacher!"

The situation of small children cannot be grasped, every day is different, and various contact emails are intertwined in the air.

Except for Mrs. Chiba and her Feng Tai who were often late, or often didn't meet up for no reason, everyone chatted without a word while waiting for the doll car, and there was no deep intersection, but they were at peace with each other.

One day, the whole car of dolls and the three adults were waiting for Mrs. Chiba and his Fengta, only to see Mrs. Chiba holding her Fengtai and running over in a hurry, "Oh, I'm sorry, in the morning, because the hot wind is too hot. shirt and handkerchief, late!"

I was surprised to hear that, do kindergarten shirts need to be ironed?

Are the handkerchiefs of the little ones hot too? Are Japanese mothers too busy? It was a culture shock to me!

But I pretended to understand, anyway, the baby carriage will drive away safely, and nothing else will do my business, that's what I thought at the time.

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Chiba family

The beautiful Mrs. Chiba, who dresses up Futa every day, is enthusiastic about education, kindergarten cadres, etc. must be the first to respond, and she has a lot of experience in parenting.

At the beginning, I always chatted with everyone enthusiastically, sharing her "so exaggerated cartoon bento", and the garden clothes accessories she sewed by herself. She is warm and chatty, and I even feel like I could be a good friend with her.

Until one day, less than two months after the start of the small class, she came to accuse me ,

"Your family, Yangping, said to Futa in the doll car, "Hagyu Yelang", my family Futa has been very traumatized and hurt, and now I don't dare to ride the doll car! I have asked the teacher to change seats, closely monitor the interaction between the two of them in the kindergarten, protect Fengta... "

She gushed.

Clam? ! I couldn't believe it, doubted my ears, and blurted out, "I haven't heard Yohei say something like Hakko Yero, does he know the word?" I was really full of question marks.

When Mrs. Chiba heard this, she tilted her head and gave me a roll of eyes, with the words on her face, (Do you mean that our family style is too lying?)

Of course I didn't mean it that way...

But Mrs. Chiba is sure, sure it was Yohei! I immediately asked Yohei, Yohei said no, and started crying. What the hell happened between two three-and-a-half-year-olds? No witnesses, no one knows! The two children were like ghosts hitting a wall, each talking their own way!

Fengtai screamed loudly, Yangping cried, and I, a new mother, made a one-sided strong accusation against Mrs. Chiba. I didn’t know what to do, so I had to bow, apologize, and say sorry to Mrs. Chiba all the time! ! sorry Sorry sorry……….

Mrs. Chiba looked very upset, and said slyly, "It's okay, child!"

"Actually, I think Feng Tai has a very good relationship with his mother, and Feng Tai likes his mother to take him to kindergarten!" I tried my best to say something in order to smooth things out.

(Isn't it usually not a ride at all?) I thought to myself.

I just wanted to ease the stalemate and praise their mother and son, nothing else really.

As a result, Mrs. Chiba's sudden nerve rupture,

"Do you mean to say that Feng Tai doesn't want to ride in a baby carriage and deliberately insult you guys?"

Ah... no way? How can you think like this? I really didn't mean it. grown ups! Injustice ah...!

I quickly explained to her and asked her not to misunderstand. She finally smiled and said, "It's alright, kid!"

Later, just when I almost forgot about it, I ran into her in the corridor of the building, and I greeted her, "こんにちはconhichiwa~!"

It's strange, she looked at the sky and the earth, but she didn't see me! Is my voice too low? I shouted again, "こんにちはconhichiwa~!" She passed me with a blank face.

…………………………. I was stunned in place.

For the first time, I felt that the situation was serious, and the heroine of the Japanese drama "Goddess Who Lost Her Name" appeared. Right by my side!

Mrs. Chiba is very personable. When everyone is waiting for the bus, she will smile and smile with me enthusiastically. When I am alone, she will not even look at me.

My father also asked me in confusion, "Why didn't Mrs. Chiba respond to her greetings?"

It turned out that it wasn't just me, she didn't even care about my father.

Later, I avoided her, didn't want to take the same elevator with her, didn't want to walk back to the building with her, not because I was afraid of her, but because I didn't want to see that face again.

Every time I see it, my heart breaks and snaps in half.

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Takanoya

Mrs. Takano was a nurse before she got married, and I wanted to introduce her to the hospital where I work, but for some reason, she has endless children.

She has four daughters and a son. The first time I saw her, she was holding the fifth baby boy, and the fourth Meizi, who was probably the younger brother from Taiwan.

Two months after the peaceful pickup, I received an email from Mrs. Takaya one afternoon. It's not the morning baby carriage time, what's wrong?

I opened the mail and saw that it was written in big words,

"Just, I love you!"

There are some nasty and disgusting words underneath.

……? ? ?

I see question marks all over my head. This must be sent to the wrong person, right?

Who is "Gang"?

I'm not a good person, it wasn't for me anyway, I immediately deleted the email. But to be honest, no matter how honest people are, they will probably be curious to know what the name of Takaya's father is.

But this involves personal privacy, I have no way of knowing. I don't want to ask either.

Mrs. Takaya sometimes came to my house to get clothes that Yangping couldn't wear, and said that she wanted to wear it for the fifth boy. One day after everyone went to elementary school, she came to pick up Yangping's old clothes. When I opened the door, I was surprised to see her bulging belly, right? sixth? I'm surprised, but I'm a mature adult, so I have to be considerate of the other person's feelings and can't shout.

But she obviously read the surprise in my eyes and explained herself,

"This sixth child is a boy, and the fifth is a company. If it is a girl, don't want it..."

"Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh" I said.

In fact, she didn't need to explain anything to me, and I smiled awkwardly. I don't even know what I'm talking about.

Whether it's the sixth or the clothes, it's obviously a beautiful thing, but for no reason, we both laughed awkwardly, and a strange atmosphere drifted between us.

Because that strange email has been stuck between us, and although she is a good person, we can talk to each other, but we both understand that we can never be true friends.

Although I worked hard to collect clothes for my sixth, I couldn't wait for the day to hand them over to Mrs. Takaya.

When I was a sophomore, Mrs. Takaya and her six children suddenly disappeared. Only Father Takaya was left in the building, and everyone owed him millions every day.

This is not the Rose Eyes and Bell Eyes, nor is it the Changhua Ershui Incident. I asked Yangping half-jokingly, "What about your classmate's fourth brother (Miko)?"

Yohei said, "I don't know, I didn't come to school one day. The teacher said that Miko and her mother went back to Kagoshima."

Mrs. Takano returned to her family in Kagoshima with her six children. Sometimes I run into Takaya's father in the corridor of the building, not only ignoring him but also making a bad face.

I looked at his back, even if he was called "Gang", I wasn't interested anymore. Anyway, they were separated as husband and wife. Who is Gang is not that important anymore.

A few months later, Dad Takaya's name was posted on the building's bulletin board because he owed the building's management fees for several years, repeatedly urged him not to pay it.

I read the notice and opened my mouth slightly in surprise,

" Ah... Takano's father's name, no... just..."

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Kimura family

Among these three families, Mrs. Kimura is the one with the biggest personality and the best one to get along with.

Her rambunctious personality often forgets when the children are out of school, so I often pick up her brothers in the hallway.

I took them home to resettle and emailed her,

(Your child is here with me) How come it seems like a threatening letter? what.

At night, Mrs. Kimura would take some puddings as a thank you gift and pick up her children.

Mrs. Kimura has 3 sons, and Mrs. Sa is the third child. In fact, I admire her very much, because she has been waiting for the baby carriage at the bus stop for 9 years. But unfortunately, she didn't get the full attendance award, and she didn't finish the 9th year.

Because one day, the one who brought Mrs. Sa for a ride became Kimura's father, and we were embarrassed to ask him, where did your wife go?

Later, Kimura's father may feel embarrassed waiting for the baby carriage with a group of women at the bus stop, so he stopped taking the baby carriage, and drove Sato to kindergarten by himself every day.

Satai came to play at home, I asked him, "Satai, where is your mother?" Satai said, "At home!"

in your head! I live next door to your house, wouldn't I know? Obviously not there! Sure enough, it is a large class, very ghostly, and speechless.

Later, I heard Mrs. Sa say that Mrs. Sa's parents got divorced, Mr. Sa's mother moved out...

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After Kimura's father drove Saita to kindergarten by himself, I was left at the doll bus stop, Mrs. Takano, who had a lot of children, and Mrs. Chiba, who I didn't want to see.

There is that wonderful email between Mrs. Takaya and me, the untrue Hakka Yelang incident between me and Mrs. Chiba, every day, the time to wait for the baby carriage, such as sitting, needles and felts.

Maybe God heard my inner cry and sent me a new friend.

On the first day of middle school, a new partner appeared at the bus stop. A Chinese wife from Nanjing with her small class daughter.

She doesn't speak Japanese very well, she doesn't know what she's afraid of, and she always stands a long way. I quickly pulled her over and spoke to her in Chinese.

She looked very grateful and asked me to teach her more. Of course I will teach her about kindergarten, but I don't really want her to know too much.

Sometimes it is better for people not to know too much.

Although the Chinese wife has always thanked me and said that I helped her a lot, but in fact I am grateful to her for being with me for two years.

At this baby carriage bus stop, Mrs. Kimura divorced, Mrs. Takaya took the children back to Kagoshima, and two years later, Mrs. China moved to Tokyo in order to give her daughter a better education.

And I, later, also took a fancy to a house near the elementary school and moved out of that building.

In the end, the bus stop that was scary to me, everyone walked, left, left, and in the end, only Mrs. Chiba was left in that building.

Chiba, Japanese pronunciation "chi-ba", similar to Taiwanese swear words. Of course I wouldn't talk to Mrs. Chiba about such boring things. But ah, this Mrs. Chiba is a real person, such as her name.

Everyone must be very curious, did Chiba Kazeta come to my house to play?

Futa and Yohei are having a good time now! The two of them didn't seem to remember the bird thing that happened when they were three and a half years old.

Neither of the two founders can remember, and the emotions of the parents on both sides really don't need to be involved in the children's friendship. Kindergarten, the protagonist is the child, not us mothers, all mothers take themselves too seriously. What I don't like is Mrs. Chiba, not Fengta.

Occasionally I pass by that bus stop and see two mothers chatting holding their children's hands.

Dear Moms~Welcome to Doll Car Building Station.

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