Control your impulses and don't act recklessly, can you?
Can you control your impulses and not act recklessly when you encounter something that does not suit your own mind? I think a lot of people, it’s okay to not be reckless, but when the real thing comes to you, you are often more reckless than anyone else. Zhixi believes that many people are like this. As a bystander, you will point your hands. If you draw your feet, you will accuse others of not being so reckless, but when the matter hits your head, you don't think so. That is to say, as we can say, standing and talking won't hurt your back.
In fact, as an ordinary person, no matter who you are, when you encounter something that does not agree with your own heart, disagree with your own thoughts, or when your way of doing things is questioned or opposed by others, you may be emotionally impulsive.
Although impulsive behavior is understandable and normal, but, as the spirit of all things, we can have self-control and control our impulses, and we must not let our impulses spread indefinitely, let alone Self-righteous, arrogant, trampling on the dignity of others at will, we should know how to respect others, and others will respect ourselves. Respect is mutual, we must firmly believe that impulsiveness is not good for anyone.
We often hear from others that impulsiveness is the devil, and impulsive emotions will definitely bring undetermined harm to ourselves or anyone else, and at the same time, they will also produce uncertain and unpredictable consequences.
Therefore, learning how to control our emotions is something that we need to learn for life. We should understand that it is impossible to do whatever we want, and it is even more impossible to let everything follow our own wishes.
The development of anything cannot be changed according to our will. We cannot change others, but we can change ourselves. It is really important to learn to control your emotions. This is the world of adults. Maybe after you control your emotions, everyone will feel that your temper is better and your interpersonal relationships can be improved.
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