Some people don't belong to you, but it's nice to meet

Last night, I listened to Xu Xiaofeng's song "Blushing," and saw a listener leave a comment saying: Some people don't belong to you, but it's good to meet them. I felt that this must be a person with a story, and at the same time I thought of my college classmate Liao Huilai, because he once said similar things to me.

Liao Hui fell in love with a girl in the next class when he was a sophomore in college. He is a very introverted person, and he has been in a crush for a long time and has not dared to confess to each other. Later, he told me, and I encouraged him to pursue it bravely. He listened to me and started trying to get to know this girl. Who knows that this girl is also a very shy person. When a boy takes the initiative to pursue her, she panics and doesn't know what to do.

Liao Hui saw that the other party had been avoiding him, and then found out that the other party's family was very rich, and then thought that his parents were farming in the countryside, and he felt very lost. He thought that the other party disliked his family background and did not want to associate with him anymore. He struggled like this for a long time, and at one point he wanted to give up.

Later, his classmates in the same dormitory persuaded him to be thick-skinned in pursuing girls, and to have the energy to not give up until he achieves his goals, so he mustered up the courage to interact with each other again. I never thought, this time it really happened, the girl completely accepted his love, and the two began to communicate intimately.

It was time to graduate soon, and both of them wanted to continue dating, but the girlfriend's parents firmly disagreed. Originally, they were not optimistic about the boyfriend chosen by their daughter. The main thing was that the family conditions were not good, and the person was not very good-looking. With such good conditions as their daughter, they could find any good boyfriend. I don't feel at ease when I play like that at school. Now that I see that they are still walking together after graduation, I start to get nervous and try my best to stop them.

Later, although the two young people intertwined their fingers and vowed to be together forever, they still couldn't stand the repeated interference of the woman's parents, and finally the two broke up reluctantly. Many years later, when Liao Hui talked about this relationship with me, he didn't mean to blame anyone. On the contrary, he was still grateful to that girlfriend. He said that she was dating him under the pressure of her parents. He was also very considerate to himself, and he was very moved by his girlfriend to look up to him like this. Then he said that although you can't get some people, but once you have them, you are already very happy. I was really moved when I heard it.

On the road of life, we will always meet some people we like very much. These people are also very kind to us, but for various reasons, they cannot accompany us for a long time. When they leave, we can regret but not resent; we should be grateful for what we have in the past, and be grateful for the encounter.