Xiao Yunxun shared: There must be a brave man under the reward?

In kindergarten, I don't think the reward method works for children, because they may not understand the attraction of rewards. For example, if they go to Disney or play in the park downstairs, Xiao Yunxun will say that they play with other children in the park downstairs. , and go home on time to watch Pokémon (halo)

Xiao Yunxun completed Primary 1 silently. He studied at home for most of the semester. Fortunately, his final grades were good. Before the exam, I also encouraged him to be careful about the questions. If his grades improved, he would take him to Disney Wrong, it's Disney again, but it's actually Yun Xun, I want to go), but his overall grade has really improved, and I will take him there according to the appointment, but he is not as happy as expected, after learning that I will He was a little excited when he set out with his cousin!

Therefore, I think that the method of rewarding a brave man may not be effective for young children, because they do not know the value of the so-called reward, and this is of course the cuteness of children.

I remember Yun Xun in the past, at the beginning of the second grade, he had a clear goal under the reward, that is, different GAMEBOY game belts and Saint Seiya alloy doll toys, I will be lost for one or two points, and only 90 points. Not happy. In retrospect, my purpose at that time seemed to be learning for the sake of toys. It was superficial, and it was actually a success in terms of consequentialism, but it distorted the purpose of learning.

Seeing that Xiao Yunxun would be interested in planting, try different refitting of tops, enjoy experimenting with recycled paper, and have a knowledge-seeking attitude towards disciplines, I found that I really underestimated him, he is not like me when I was young Snobby, but really have the pursuit of learning.

Therefore, parents, don’t give their children heavy rewards for everything. In fact, they don’t need these rewards at all. Spending time with them and exploring their interests together is more helpful to their growth, and their values will be more practical and will not think about it. Crooked only to learn for the reward.