Listen to the song and talk about love (1) From commitment to order...

Have you ever woken up in the morning, and the other party's call ended a once beautiful relationship?

Then, do you choose to only live in the past memory of the other party and never meet again, or you can still be friends after breaking up. After separation, how much time will you spend missing someone? Just one night until dawn, or an eternity?

The joys and sorrows in love are like the change of the four seasons in nature. From the beginning of spring, when the flowers bloom, all the way to the desolation of the frozen earth.

So the love of some friends, after the introspection and adjustment of both parties, luckily survived the cold winter of the relationship, returned to the earth in spring again, and once again bloomed the sweet flowers of love that belonged to the two of them, and then blossomed and fruited until eternity;

And the love of some friends, once they enter the ice age, they will be splendid in one shot. , it can be regarded as a good gathering and a good dispersal;

Of course, there are some friends who are entangled with each other all the way on the emotional journey, spend their youth in vain on the journey of life and love. There may have been a trace of good feelings in the past, but it has turned into a bleak ending with both sides hurting. The longer they are involved, only the boundless love and hate are left, intertwined and hidden in deep regrets, and even set foot on the road of no return in life because of this.

All of this is often because people have so many cognitive differences on whether a piece of love is worth paying for, thus creating a relationship. In the end, whether it is going to the spring breeze to send warmth or the frost and snow, some people will happily bear it. .

The problem of love is borrowed from Shakespeare's famous play Hamlet's famous saying when he was hesitating whether to kill his uncle: "To be or not to be, that's the question." As to whether the value of love is worth it, what should it be? To accept the fate of God's destiny on the road of love? Or do you have to resist all the way and pursue the true love that you believe, the so-called man will conquer the sky? The answer varies from person to person.

But if you are on the road of love and you realize that you are in love with the wrong person, or you are in love with someone who is not suitable for you, please have the courage to say it clearly and understand. In the face of emotional changes, you must learn to let go, and don’t just greed for the other party’s temporary attachment. Well, lest they hurt each other more and more. What I am most afraid of is that one party wants to let go, and the other party refuses, so the originally short and concise love unit drama turned into a protracted series, until the relatives and friends on both sides could not watch it anymore, and one of the protagonists had already left. The remaining obsessed party is still standing alone on a stage that has already fallen into disrepair, crying and performing a "one-man show" of "Unreasonable General Ruan Fang", which is too tiring.

It deserves love Lyrics: Liu Siming Song: Liu Zhihong Original Singer: Wan Fang, the film is quoted from

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibG92StQm-U

If the road of a thousand miles can only accompany you for one ride in the wind and snow

Holding your hand, I don't even ask

The desolate world gathers and separates, who cares how true the situation is

The vast sea of people just want to have a true share

It's worth the love, it's worth the wait, even if you and I are two cents

I don't blame fate, I just hope you can remember the people who accompanied you all over the world

Not in vain youth is not in vain, even if there is a love and hate in water and fire

If you can't love for a lifetime, your dreams can't come true, but also let infatuation fly with you

Because of human nature, we often inadvertently make promises lightly at the beginning of love, and when we don't love, those sweet promises become a torment. What kind of role? Is it often unintentional hurt? Or endless tolerance and forgiveness?

Many friends always go back and forth on the road of love, thinking that it is over, but the twists and turns have turned. If their hearts are unwilling to let go, does it look like the past is cloudy, and in a blink of an eye, the haze can be removed and the sunny day can be reappeared, if two people are willing to each other To give the other party another chance, of course, it must start from the "heart". On the contrary, there are some friends who have been roaming on the road of love, although they often ask themselves in their hearts, who will the person I wait for? It is inevitable that I will be hurt, so I have been afraid to step out, and therefore in the journey of life, I wasted the courage of youth and love.

When there is a change in a relationship, maybe both parties are good people, but the time of love is wrong, so that both parties are destined to go to the end of love step by step from the beginning of the encounter. When a friend who is hurt in love because the other party decides to leave, the only way to make his heart free is to let the other party go and let love be free, and stop thinking about what was right and wrong in the past. Opportunity to be reborn, to accept the beginning of another period of happiness.

You are now devastated by the parting in front of you, so try to imagine how much sadness you will have left after ten years? Or think about the people and things that passed away ten years ago, how much do you still remember?

Do you really love her (him) as much as you think? Or maybe it's just a moment of confusion that I can't help myself? Maybe you haven't started yet, maybe you are going through it, maybe you have been through ten years, no matter what kind of situation you are in, I wish you learn to let go when it's time to let go, because most of us in love are good people.

We are all good people Lyrics: Yao Ruolong Song: Chen Xiaoxia Original singing: Su Huilun, the film is quoted from

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6T75oJVy3k

A row of yellow and red street lights illuminated at three o'clock in the middle of the night like dusk

It feels like something is already cold and something is about to happen

If it wasn't for being stubborn and making people stupid, happiness wouldn't be a door to be thrown at

I think we're all good people, it's a pity to have too proud souls

I wouldn't cry like a little girl if you hadn't kissed me lightly on the head

I think we are all good people, but it's a pity that we only have the fate of being friends

Sitting on the overpass and watching the stars take off their shoes and can't take off their boredom

Just want to take a sip of your beer but feel the warmth of the bottle

When love has been roaming for many years, but it can't be cultivated into a positive result, there may be thousands of reasons behind it, but in many cases, it is just pure love that is not right. Because two very good people are not necessarily suitable for pairing, if the two have very different views on life and love.

It's just that many friends around me know that they love the wrong person, but they are reluctant or unwilling to let go. The reason is that they are "unwilling" and "reluctant". Constantly hypnotizing yourself will be the last and only lucky person. As long as you continue to give your true love and sincerity, one day you will make the other party get lost. But the truth is that once you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you are doomed to be separated, no matter how much time and effort you have put into it.

It’s not wrong to love someone, but it’s wrong to be entangled in it, always in the name of love, and want to use it for love, to move someone who no longer belongs to you, to the end, if you live in a beautiful imagination of a person It is so unbearable to be obsessed with the hearts of people who refuse to wake up, and rely only on the sweet memories of the past to maintain it!

Some friends will procrastinate and linger because they are nostalgic for the other party's goodness to them at the beginning. Even if the other party has already said clearly about the breakup, their hearts are also clear. As a commitment to love, until the relationship has nowhere to go and nowhere to stay, and is unwilling to wake up, is this a youthful obsession with love, and persistence in true love? Or is the heart's endless greed for love?

The answer may vary from person to person, but when people’s hearts go from simple to complex, from nothingness to greed, the joy of meeting in love will naturally be lost bit by bit, while the pain of getting along and arguing will accumulate bit by bit. , from working hard to "undertake" to the end, but becoming a "order", so is it really "worthy of love"?

Lyrics/Music: Chen Xiaojuan Original Singer: Xu Ruyun, the film is quoted from   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SClHiaOWkGM

Put on the blue shirt you returned, close your eyes, you are mine

(Take off the blue shirt you don't like and open your eyes, but I'm still yours)

Imagine that I'm still in your arms being held by you

Take off the blue shirt you don't like, open your eyes, but I'm still yours

Tears are only two lines and it's still hot overnight In this world, only our love is not a loser

I always bear the burden of two people

Even if you are weak, you must be strong, even if you have a dream, you must wait to be overthrown

I always bear the burden of two people alone

Be strong even if I try

The sky outside the window is cloudy, and occasionally there is rain. Is your heart also gray? Love always seems to be so unpredictable. You who love you don't love you, but you don't love you. If you shed tears, you can make the sky of love fade away and see the light again. Then who do you want to shed the starlight of an angel for now? Woolen cloth?

The rain that falls beside me, no matter how violent it is, there will always be a day to stop. I am afraid of the rain that falls in my heart. The trickle seems to be calm, but it is long and long with the longing of a lifetime, bit by bit penetrates the fragility and helplessness Your heart has become an indelible memory... Is there such a person hidden in your heart?

How long have you been alone in the foggy forest of love? Has anyone ever strayed into your emotional forbidden zone and caught you off guard? Is it the legendary angel of love? Or is it the devil's disguised incarnation? Maybe it's not, maybe it's just the reflection of yourself in your heart, psychedelic in the dream... Until you are willing to choose to walk out of the dream and give your heart, you can get the redemption of true love...

Between happiness and loneliness, it is simply choosing to love or not to love, but that is just the beginning. If people's hearts were so simple, there would not be so much sadness about love in this world. Some people are used to giving, while others You are used to asking for it, and only after you miss it, will you realize that it was true love or just a game? Because not every love can go from "commitment" to "commitment". The road went from "undertaking" to "making an order".

Many friends in the online world often long for a hug because of loneliness, and blindly look for love, but they often find out that having love does not mean happiness. There may be someone around who can hug, but it will not be less because of this. Some loneliness, just because I have never really understood the real reason behind my inner loneliness.

The journey of pursuing true love is not always smooth sailing, and of course it will not be thorns along the way. No matter whether there is family, love and friendship in life, everyone is unique. In the journey of life, there should be at least one section. On the road of walking alone, you must learn to embrace loneliness and enjoy the taste of loneliness. Only by experiencing and understanding your own loneliness will you have a broader vision of life and know how not to blindly undertake in love. The promise of true love will one day be realized. Yes, bless you.

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