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How to maintain a long-distance relationship? Teach you 5 ways to talk about a ceremonial love!

In a long-distance relationship, we will gradually get used to the absence of our partner and the lack of empathy and intersection in our lives, so we no longer savor the small emotions and feelings in our relationship, and finally compromise on the plain, but this is not what long-distance couples expect, we The care and warmth can be passed on to each other through the sense of ritual in life. The article recommends 5 good ways to enhance the sense of ritual, so that long-distance couples can reconnect and love you and me!

Does long-distance love also need a sense of ritual?

Have you ever wanted to change the monotonous and ordinary things into something different? Dress up at home alone, try to cook a delicious meal without ordering takeout, and occasionally buy yourself a bouquet of flowers. In fact, we all need a "sense of ritual" to inject living water into ordinary days. Isn't that the case with long-distance love?

Is it because the distance, the inability to meet frequently, and the inability to take care of each other immediately, make the relationship dull? of course not! Adding a sense of ritual to your emotional life can make long-distance couples reconnect and love you and me. The following 5 methods are recommended for everyone, let's talk about a long-distance relationship with a sense of ritual!


5 ways to have a ritualistic long-distance relationship

The first trick: the earth-flavored love story

Keeping in touch every day and video chatting at a fixed time is a good habit to give distant partners a sense of security, but without face-to-face contact, it is inevitable that they will feel a little dull and lacking in fun; at this time , it is best to have some sweet and earthy words. Flavoring agent! Although it is earthy, it is very useful, and sometimes it can even directly bring a multiplier effect to the relationship!

The second trick: synchronizing chasing dramas and watching movies

Long-distance partners can also date. Even if they are in different places, they can make an appointment to wear a couple’s outfit, eat dinner and share food at the same time. Among them, “simultaneously chasing dramas and watching movies” is our most recommended way. Two people laugh and cry together. , Eating snacks and discussing the direction of the plot, while increasing the "empathy", it also warms up the feelings !

The third trick: send romance and small surprises

Sending a romantic surprise on a memorable day will no doubt make your partner feel that you are valued. We will write letters to each other on the anniversary of each month; send flowers and meticulously made memory videos on Valentine’s Day; in addition to sending each other’s wish list gifts on birthdays, we also make commemorative storybooks for each other, all of which are exclusive to us. sense of ceremony.

The fourth trick: the reward and punishment game

The gameplay of the game has high flexibility. For example, after making a partner angry, both parties will accept a punishment if they evaluate it reasonably; if a bet is made on a certain thing, the winner can get a reward; the accumulated rewards and punishments can be After the two meet, they can cash in, for example: punishing each other for wearing stockings and dancing a hot dance, rewarding themselves for enjoying massage services, etc., which not only adds interest to life, but also makes the days of waiting to meet no longer tormented .

Tip 5: Set goals for working together

The biggest fear of long-distance love is uncertainty . I don’t know when I can meet again, I don’t know if the other person has you in the future, I don’t know what to work hard for. At this time, it is very important to “plan the future together and set a common goal” ! For example: we will discuss the wish list to complete for the next meeting, how to achieve cohabitation in 3 years, etc., and your partner will also have a raging fighting spirit because of these common goals.


In a long-distance relationship, we will gradually get used to the absence of our partner and the lack of empathy and intersection in our lives, so we no longer savor the small emotions and feelings in our relationship, and finally compromise on the plain, but this is not what long-distance couples expect , our care and warmth can be passed on to each other through the sense of ritual in life. Let's take steps together now and talk about a long-distance love full of ritual!

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