濑户内海与香山
濑户内海与香山

真的吗,我不信。

Plz write a sigma symbol uppercase

There have been some ups and downs in the last three days. During the ups and downs, some ancient memories will be quickly dug out of the mind for self-protection. If it is summed up in the tone of nicetry, it should be the event of mutual deletion and blackmail.

The only po I ever posted on Douban was written like this, I said: In the era of social media, in the era when every app has a social function, I was hit by my ex-boyfriend on Zhihu, WeChat, QQ, Douban, Weibo.. All the places that can be blocked are blocked in all directions. When I want to continue to look for NetEase Cloud, I suddenly want to give up. I'm an ordinary girl, it's amazing to be hated so hard. This short statement has been reposted and forwarded by many people, and maybe being blocked or blocked is an experience that everyone can relate to. There is nothing more brutal than contemporary torture to be blocked without a crack on the Internet.

I used to be a very fond of and good at using the blocking function. The people I blocked are: high school classmates who have not been in contact for a long time in adolescence and never want to contact again, junior high school acquaintances who said "how did you get so fat" on the spot in the swimming pool, all ex-boyfriends who always like to ask me about personal affairs School girls, and some real bad guys who design personal attacks and scams... All in all, blocking is a contemporary power in my opinion, a reasonable move that can push anyone out of life at any time. If there are greetings and friends, there should be mutual deletion and blocking. I use these rights correctly and prudently, like a feudal king who controls life and death, I need to have a complete dominance in my kingdom, believe in myself brutal butfair, and play well in these rights.

But three days ago, I experienced an earth-shaking event, and I was blocked in all directions by the most unexpected friend at the most unexpected time. When I saw the red exclamation mark, my brain buzzed for a while, the flood immediately passed the cordon, the beeping life alarm sounded, and Xiaosa's life entered a state of major disaster! I tried to contact one by one, but all were blocked! Why? ! I immediately experienced the first stage of the classic human reaction when encountering sudden tragic events: denial and anger, disbelief, refusal to believe, anger, sadness, apology, trying to save. Of course, those who are blocked in all directions have no chance of effective redemption.

I tried in so many ways to calm my mind and try to keep myself alive. Crying, confiding in others, comforting myself, I even jumped zumba, did yoga, and sent greeting messages to all my friends who could. It was really a flash of light and flint. Without a teacher, I understood some truths that I didn't want to understand before I was killed:

—— It turns out that the so-called correctness is really nothing compared to human friendship; it turns out that the loss of human beings will happen so suddenly and unpredictably; it turns out that there are so many things that are a hundred times more important than maintaining correctness; It turns out that human beings can lose Anything, got a cold and got a fever and lost your voice forever, got cut with a knife and amputated, tweeted and one of your best friends broke up with you...

This was the biggest moment of enlightenment in my adult life. It seemed to shatter some narrow ego, what kind of butterfly effect, what kind of fate, the original is the crude casual relationship. The same is true of the birth of man, because because, so so, because so, there is no why, there is no reason at all (at least from your end not a clue). Just like accepting death, you can only pray that the pain will be healed and passed. Many things are like death, and blocking is one of them.

Then I started to reflect on myself, why do I block others. Even the bad guys in my story really don't deserve any new chance? Friends who call me fat at first sight, embarrassing teenage friends, ex-boyfriends, are they really so wicked, the world is wide enough for Hamilton and me, the world is wide enough the block list and me as well. Really Is there anything you can't forgive? Is there really something that never hurts a second chance? Is there really a "never again" "never come" way of saying no?

I will never block anyone again because of my embarrassment or excess self-consciousness. Don't hold on to any implacability anymore. In fact, this principle has been tried to educate me a hundred times. I have to learn it. Forgive, forgive, let it go, don't go on the road with so many burdens. Anyone who appears in my life is not me if I remove anyone. Humanity deserves a second chance, and so do I. There is only a second chance to resist the unknowable and rude of Ming's fate, not wanting to make life as unreasonable as death, I embrace the forgiveness.

What is the end of this incident? The ex-boyfriend has already added it back, and turns out he really didn't block my NetEase Cloud! He also sent a private message to my NetEase Cloud in December last year, and of course I missed it; the embarrassed teenage friend said, "Did you delete me by accident?" I said, "It seems so! I don't even need WeChat!". Those of you who are still on the blacklist, accpet and grieve, accept and cheer up into a new life when you find that nothing can be done. Fortunately, in my storyline, before reaching the stage of accepting in vain, I received a bouquet of flowers from the friend who killed a thousand knives. The card said please write asigma symbol uppercase. How the sum of life is also a mathematical formula, gan! Of course I was humiliated and wanted to cry, so I made up.

This is my blocked incident and my thoughts on blocking and life blocking! Blessed are those who forgive.


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