Develop interest in chatting and speaking

What are you interested in? When I meet strangers, I always talk about this topic.

My answer is always: "A lot!"

In retrospect, many of my interests were not without reason - because I loved life. It is not difficult to find that people who love life always have a lot of interest. The slight difference between me and others is that my interests are mostly static. Although things have changed in recent years, especially the interactive relationships that have to be cultivated because of the visits.

Also because of the need for interviews, cultivating how to chat with others and ask questions has become one of my interests. The way to cultivate interest is nothing more than starting with a "?". Then, expand your own cognition and imagine that you want to master this interest. Where do you start?

I have met many interviewers over the years, most of them of course extremely friendly. Some interviewers also said that they refused to cooperate because they were unfamiliar and uninterested in related people and topics. Every time I meet such an object, I wonder, the interview is because you "don't know" the other person, and you only explore and dig the interviewee's story from the conversation after getting the "permission" of the other person.

Unless the interviewee is a celebrity, there are tons of stories for you to dig. But many times we are curious about something and want to do an interview because no one has ever contacted it, and I am eager to write this story. A good interview is not based on the existing and old interview materials of others, but how much curiosity we can carry out "mysterious search" on the interviewee.

So I especially hate that the interviewee prepares a lot of information in advance. I've met an interviewer who has read a lot and told me before the interview that he didn't think he could write a better interview than the others. I comforted him at the time and said, "You only need to use chatting to get in touch with each other. People who are willing to be interviewed are generally people who are willing to chat. Unless it's money."

Autistic people generally do not accept strangers easily. People who are willing to meet strangers are generally not autistic. Besides, they must have a story to tell you before they agree to tell you the story when they send out the invitation to visit. If not, why bother and agree to be interviewed?

I don't have much interview experience, but most of the people I meet like to talk. I also like to talk. It is a happy thing to develop an interest in chatting and talking. Of course, I don't want you to say everything. This "chat" interest has been cultivated, and you can earn a lot of "vision".