The 493rd day of Perth Diary, life abroad is not perfect, and why it is worth starting over

Life abroad is not perfect at all, why is it worth giving up everything we have to try and start over.

Because people yearn for and pursue freedom, no one can accept the shackles that are meaningless but have to obey. When the shackles are so strong that personal power cannot solve them and they have to obey, many problems will arise. Work enthusiasm issues, relationship issues, education issues, those trivial things will be infinitely magnified, you can give up the current living environment and go to another isolated place to live, but the world is all about the king Soil, as long as you are still in the same cultural sky, you can’t escape the unspoken rules that make you depressed and the meaninglessness you have to follow. If the fundamental problems cannot be solved, even if you move to the deep mountains and old forests, as long as you are There are intersections in this society, and these problems are what you have to face.

Of course, life abroad is not perfect. The biggest difference between life here and domestic life is that it is more free, without the restrictions of interpersonal relationships, traditional culture, and unreasonable rules and systems. Individuals have more opportunities to follow their own hearts to develop their own personality characteristics and Life style, because the interpersonal relationship is not so close, and there is less comparison and jealousy, which is an advantage that even foreigners living abroad do not have. It is easier for us to follow our heart and live the way we want.

The imperfection of foreign countries lies in the unity of human weaknesses. No matter what race or culture and education people have received, they cannot escape selfishness, jealousy, suspicion, and comparison under human desires, and the only way to deal with it is to make themselves better. A confident personality, a stronger mind, and a greater peace of mind as these condition our perception of happiness in our lives.

Living abroad, you may still have to face overtime, narrow bosses, introverted education, interpersonal relationships, love and marriage, personality growth and independence, and the grasp of happiness in life. It is directly owned because you left the country and landed in a strange country.

But you can’t depend on anyone’s life abroad, it will give you a sense of loneliness that you can’t get rid of. Loneliness can promote a person’s exploration of deeper growth in the heart. If you can’t stand loneliness, no matter where you are, you can’t handle it. Well, with all the relationships mentioned above, you are at a loss for the right to freedom, and you may choose to retreat into the comfort zone you used to be. This is also the weakness of human weakness. You must be brave enough to face various challenges. Grow through challenges.

Freedom is a double-edged sword, weed out those who are not strong enough on the road of life growth, experience those who are resolute, strong and brave, and promote their happy life.

Bravery is always the key to the pursuit of happiness. Those who lack courage have become the parents of most of us. This defect limits their cognition, and their cognition forms the starting point of our cognition. This is what we live now. The source of all kinds of problems, of course there are no perfect parents in the world, but we can improve our cognition as much as possible through our own efforts, not only for the happiness of our children, but also for ourselves.