On the 442nd day of Perth Diary, my career in Perth will start with early childhood education

In my life, the biggest turning point that changed my life was the moment I decided to leave my original family. I gave up all expectations for my original family, and I told myself that everything in the future will be created by myself.

The death of my father, my mother's paranoia, and the avalanche of my family's financial situation all paved the way for me to wake up to this moment.

I can't remember exactly when I first read Adler's individual psychology enlightenment "The Courage to Be Disliked". In contrast, the first reading of "The Road Less Traveled" gave me more emotions.

But many years later, when I inadvertently picked up "The Courage to Be Disliked", I realized that the principles I had learned in the past so many years of personal practice had already been clearly explained by the wise men in "The Courage to Be Disliked". It's just that at that moment, I couldn't look at these truths that overturned my cognition from the standpoint of a wise man.

Then, I looked through all of Adler's books with great interest, and the one I read the most was "Inferiority and Transcendence". I still couldn't understand the teacher's thinking after reading it for the first time.

But with the enrichment of my life experience, my introspection and thinking about my past life, especially under the catalysis of three years of isolated life in the Philippine islands, I once again won "Inferiority and Transcendence", and I discovered my own self-esteem for the first time. My heart is so close to Master Adler, and his summary of wisdom is an overview of all my past life courses.

It's really hard for me to say how much Adler's Individual Psychology has changed my life. I feel that his theory is more like seeing another person think about me after practicing my own life. It is a clear summary of the changes, but I also believe that when I saw this book for the first time, when I was still extremely confused, the obscure and new cognitive concepts in the book must have been in my mind early. Planted in the mind.

In general, I don't think I am a person who loves to read. I have countless doubts about the concepts in any book. I just like to think, and after thinking, I happen to see here the book that was once buried in my mind. under the seeds.

I am so lucky, and I am eager to plant this correct idea that I have practiced in the hearts of countless people. This is the biggest driving force since I have been an official account for so long.

I've been lucky enough to have survived the countless life ordeals that have nearly killed me countless times over the past three decades and have only made me stronger and made me stronger inside than ever. firm.

I am a person who is very easy to lose interest in one thing. I have never known why. Now I am very clear. I am a subconscious person who likes to get to the bottom of the matter, seek the logic behind it, and pursue the inner sense of meaning. If I can't feel the meaning from one thing that keeps pushing me to continue, and I can easily give up and move on to another thing that I think will make me happy.

In the end, I found a sense of meaning now, and I am eager to see more thought enlightenment of life. love, and make unparalleled achievements on top of it.

Just thinking about it, I can feel that this is the reason why I have gone through layers of hardships in the past and brushed shoulders with death countless times. This is the reason why I finally found a sense of meaning and purpose in life for myself.

This sense of mission accompanied the completeness of my personality, and I began to have an unparalleled passion for education.

I experienced a car accident in the early days, and fitness helped me regain my strength. I was inspired to be a fitness instructor. On this road, I came into contact with diving and became a freediving instructor. Finally, at the friend’s Under the advice, I started working as a life coach again, and then I opened an online English school to help more children learn English well, and to help them open their minds and explore the world in the future is my most important goal.

As I went farther and farther on the road of education, I accidentally found that I gradually developed a protagonist personality in my life, especially when I saw my dreams and my sense of meaning clearly written down. It also invisibly strengthened my sense of faith.

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I seldom mentioned to others that when I was doing environmental protection on Mama Island in the Philippines, my dream was to build this malapascua into a second home for Chinese people overseas. I wanted to attract as much as possible those who are honest, Kind and brave Chinese friends live here.

This plan, which I had never mentioned to others, gradually fell apart before I began to face those unexpected difficulties. I underestimated the influence of politics, and I also underestimated the stubbornness of the ideological level.

I decided to leave the island and land in Australia.

I want to go to a more mature, fairer, and more difficult platform to have a look, to see what more hardships the environment in this position will bring to my life, and the growth behind the hardships.

But before that, in Baguio, I gradually had a seed. I wanted to have my own school, a school with the mission of cultivating an independent life.

The 34-year-old was born again in Australia

After landing in Australia, all kinds of pressure were greater than I imagined. Fortunately, in the past year, I survived, and I never lost my direction. I relied on support workers, diving coaches, and swimming The income from coach, life coach, and English school has survived.

During this year, I began to have a better understanding of this environment and the sense of mission I gave myself.

The three years I lived in the Philippines were almost isolated from the world. When I returned to the real world, my ideological growth in the past three years was also facing the test of returning to the real society. I used the human nature I learned to guide my life. Behavior, I use my gradually formed personality goals to guide my thinking direction.

I can proudly say that my original intention has never changed.

Swimming and diving teaching are not my greatest passions, and the work of a life coach has also made me understand more clearly the resistance to changing human weaknesses from the outside world.

Cognitive level, way of thinking and behavior habits should plant the seeds of health as early as possible.

If there are many problems in a child's behavior habits, it must be that his parents have given the child the direction to imitate these problems. The joint change of parents, even if the parents do not change, can let the children see another kind of cognition, and plant possible opportunities for the children to change in the future. In my opinion, this is the role of education.

After landing in Australia, I chatted casually with the principals of some local after-school education and counseling institutions, and I found that there are major differences between us in education. I believe that I will make a school that is different from others. A different institution under the guidance of a completely different educational philosophy than our generation and our previous generation, I hope to see many children can become independent personalities in the future, making unrivaled achievements in the field they love achievements, not one or two lifetime-limited replicas in a high-paying industry.

Recently, I have been studying Schopenhauer's ideological achievements. New friends will also see my recent sharing. It is more about philosophy and lonely thinking. Valuable thinking often cannot play a huge role in contemporary times. The role of philosophy was gradually recognized in later generations, which is the biggest regret of philosophical thinking in contemporary times.

The good news is that I have gradually discovered that all the great philosophical thinkers have gradually turned their life focus to education, such as Socrates, Plato, and Adler.

The road of education should be the direction where ideas can maximize their value.

In the past year, I experienced happiness while struggling, but I began to find that the English education in China became more and more unsustainable, due to the economic downturn and the change of policy direction.

I think I still have to gradually shift the focus of my work to the local education in Perth.

Therefore, I will gradually begin to explore the feasibility of educating children after class, with the guidance of personality independence in Individual Psychology and the specific method of cultivating a sound personality.

But I know that these ideas of mine can only be recognized by those parents who have the same ideas. This ratio must be extremely low, but as long as I have the opportunity, I can influence the growth trajectory of one, two, ten or twenty lives. , I think it is still worth doing.

Local friends in Perth, if parents who agree with my philosophy, can contact me, if there are like-minded friends who want to work with me on this education work, you can also contact me, let us do something great that can change the world , my ultimate hope is that one day, this individual growth after-school school can grow into a university.

As a Chinese, living in this unspeakable age, each of us who is awakened should shoulder the responsibility of awakening others given by the times.