Perth Diary Day 280: Upright people, I hope you are brave enough to be free

Needless to say, freedom is not only scarce, but also contraband.

Another contraband is integrity .

My father's end was tragic because he had the misfortune to possess it, and my mother possessed it, though it was not the ultimate cause of her twists and turns.

my father

The influence of the original family is so important that it is almost impossible for a dishonest parent to raise an upright child, and integrity will flow into the blood of every upright parent's child like me, and I brother.

Like other philosophers, I advocate the importance of kindness in one's growth in life, as I have shared in previous articles.

Weekly Discussion 8: Your Kindness and Integrity

But it seems that integrity is another trait that can be spawned by kindness, but not all kind people have it.

Integrity means having the courage to stand firm in one's beliefs, even if you are incompatible with this dirty environment, you also have the courage to stick to your unique characteristics.

In normal soil, integrity can bloom and bear fruit smoothly, but in swampy land, integrity may only make one's life fall into the quagmire, and if one refuses to sink to the bottom of the pool, there will be no possibility of germination.

This is one of the main reasons for the tragedy of my family of origin.

As a survivor in this tragic family, I thought out this logical relationship, and I saw this causal relationship from the painful reality, but I chose to stick to my father's integrity.

Integrity in this environment will add more pain to a person. Kindness may just mean not doing evil, but integrity means that you can't see kind people being bullied.

If a person chooses integrity, he will never be able to sink into the swamp to take root, and if he does not take root, he will never be able to gather enough strength to speak for others. This seems to be an endless loop.

Maybe the soul's pursuit of freedom can add wings to integrity. Although I don't know if the next landing point is still a swamp, at least I have the right to choose. I just need to be full of courage to face an unknown shelter.

Almost all the ups and downs in my life in the past 30 years came from kindness and integrity. With the blessing of courage, after I was full of courage to replace a piece of soil for myself, kindness and integrity constituted the driving force for my ideological growth.

I used to blame my father for not being able to follow the wind, but today I am proud of my unchanging blood.

Today, due to the domestic situation, those lives who are truly full of courage to speak out for others, in addition to being forced by their own situation, I think it is more driven by integrity, because I have seen more people fall silent.

An upright person is a rare breed. He has a bright future. When he gathers enough courage, he has the energy to influence others. Before that, he was only gathering the energy to break through himself.

When integrity is no longer rare, when enough people are full of courage to start speaking up for others, I think it is a normal environment. And until then, everyone pays for the rarity of integrity.

If you have the misfortune to choose a mate with integrity, don't blame him for his ignorance, you need to pour courage into his integrity.

If your parents are not upright, then you can cultivate an atmosphere of integrity for yourself, and you can only survive in individual environments by adapting to the wind. It is impossible to truly gain the respect from the heart of others.

Integrity, combined with courage, is enough to gain the freedom to follow the wind, and kindness will help you gain the energy to thrive in a fertile soil.

When each of us is full of strength to cry out for others, only then can others speak out for our misfortune, become a flame, keep the darkness from approaching, ignite others, and bring warmth to ourselves.

Today, I am proud of the infinite troubles my integrity has caused me.

You who are upright, I am also proud of you, for your unyielding, for your kindness, for your incompatibility, you must believe that all difficulties are a test of your faith.

When you have the blessing of enough courage, we will definitely meet somewhere under the guidance of freedom.