Perth Diary Day Two Hundred and Twenty: True Kindness Requires Wisdom

I think everyone can find a few of these people, and so do I, and for those sharp and contradictory things around them, they can always use positive words to prevaricate the past.

It seems that it is not bad to focus more on your own efforts and progress. I used to think that this was a very high level, and I was ashamed of myself.

But I can't always turn a blind eye to the fairness of the others around me, and I can't ignore the dark side behind the facts that I have seen clearly.

I used to be envious of people who have been quiet and peaceful and can always find beauty in the details of life, until my heart began to be firm enough to form my own logic for viewing things, and I can clearly distinguish those so-called quiet times are poisons .

Recently, I was studying Russell Rolland's classic quotations, and I empathized with many of his famous words, especially Russell Rolland's admiration for the character of kindness, and the classic overview, which pushed my inner firmness to a higher level.

Russell Rolland, in particular, praised kindness as the first important among many characters:

Those with good hearts are the first and the easiest to awaken, because they pity the suffering and the weak, and when they understand the root of these sufferings, they will hate the source of the suffering. The indifferent and ruthless are on the contrary, they ignore fairness and justice, and are ignorant.

True kindness requires strong empathy and empathy for the suffering of the vulnerable groups around you, in order to stimulate the motivation to understand the truth. True kindness should be wise, because it is necessary to understand the truth of suffering through the superficial suffering of the world.

Such kindness cannot ignore the injustice and injustice existing in society, and how can it be just self-motivation and create an imaginary beautiful world for oneself with the little touches in life.

Russell Rolland's words, combined with the irreversible order of life values in "The Godfather":

The first step is to strive to realize self-worth,

The second step is to take good care of your family.

The third step is to help good people as much as possible,

The fourth step is to speak for the ethnic group,

The fifth step is to fight for honor for the country.

Let me begin to understand why I have a special fondness for one type of person in my life.

I also tried to summarize the common types of people in my life, and I began to find that the hypocrisy of the so-called quiet years actually belongs to the type of people who believe that there is light in the world, but are unable to identify the light source.

In the past, I would envy the 'positive' energy they showed in front of others, but now I can see through their inner fragility. These self-deceiving positive energies are a manifestation of hypocrisy and are not enough to cover up their inner cowardice.

If we use Adler’s inferiority complex to transcend psychology to explain: the hypocrisy and positive energy of not trying to get rid of the cocoons, it is more like a kind of superiority that life is happier than others as long as the hardships of life are not recognized in words.

To empathize with the suffering of others around you, and to dig out the truth behind the suffering in the midst of suffering, requires the wisdom of stripping the cocoon, logical analysis, and breaking through the bottom line of the casserole, and it takes courage to form this ability to change.

In addition to Russell Rolland, Shakespeare, Kant, these philosophers are all advocating the kindness of true wisdom.

In fact, it is very easy to find out what kind of kindness the people around you belong to. It is enough to understand their essential views on social injustice, because non-intelligent 'kindness' will definitely not go deep To dig out the truth behind suffering, it will be more self-comfort with personal efforts.

Personal efforts are an essential part of a person's success, but lack of analysis of the truth behind the environment is like talking on paper without a solid foundation for struggle. The more cruel and fading away, if you carefully observe the external display of those friends who have been quiet in the years, it must have changed with the current environment. That really belongs to the kind of superiority looking for a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, and it will be himself who will be buried in the end.

I am no longer afraid of losing any friends, because many so-called friends, in my opinion, have no room to help each other grow. If so, then thinking alone may be more helpful to the individual, because of the influence of others, in your When your heart is not hard enough to be rock solid, it will definitely shake your judgment.

For kind-hearted people, a little more comfort and help will make you grow faster to the height you want to speak for the ethnic group and the nation.

For hypocritical people, stay away, maybe be good to each other, you will be more firm in your judgment, and they will have a better chance to honestly face their inner perceptions after lacking the comparison of happiness and superiority.

As a kind person, never try to evade your inner desire to speak out for the suffering of the kind-hearted people around you. It will bring you inner suffering and setbacks, but it will also make your heart stronger and break through yourself. courage.

The ultimate purpose of everything we experience is to build a strong heart, which is the only necessary and sufficient condition for the pursuit of happiness in life.