What should I do if I am blocked by my ex after breaking up and want to recover? What compound tricks are there?

After breaking up, many couples often delete or block each other's Facebook, LINE and other contact information to declare the end of the relationship. In this case, even if the person who was deleted wants to go back, whether it is because of self-esteem, or because he wants to save his face, there is no way to successfully contact the other person. So what should I do if I want to get back with my ex after breaking up and find that it is blocked or deleted?

There are hundreds of ways to break up, and it's hard to say why the other party wants to delete you. Usually no matter what the fuse is, the situation will deteriorate to the point of deleting friends, and there is only one possibility: it is impossible for me and this person. Of course, except for those who block and delete the other half of their social friends when they are angry, this refers to the behavior after the real breakup.

In fact, if you want to save the other party after a breakup, stalking is the wrong way to save , and controlling your emotions is the first step to successful recovery.

It is very difficult to control emotions and stay calm in the early stages of a breakup, otherwise there would be no such survey data. 83% of people will get back together after a breakup, but only 30% of those who do get back together make it to the end. The wrong redemption has already made him block you, and the situation is very serious. If you don't calm down in time, it is very likely that you will miss the best time to recover.

To calm yourself down, you need to find something to do, for example: go climbing a mountain, read a book, get drunk with three or two friends, fitness running, etc., or focusing on work are all good ways. After adjusting your emotions, you need to plan your next actions, sort out your mutual friends, and if you can get in touch, look for them to see if there is anything other than WeChat and phone numbers that has not been blocked. Deleted, can contact him.

Also, don't reveal your sense of need. One of the big taboos of recovery is to expose your sense of need. Those who reunite naturally are all because they really or pretended to turn around and leave when they broke up. Of course, the premise is that there is an emotional foundation, just because there is no sense of need exposed during the breakup. Why can't we expose the sense of need, or in other words, we must reduce exposure, and we must hide more? Because the exposure of your sense of need will arouse or even deepen the negative impression of the other party on you. You strongly need him to get back together with you, but the other party doesn’t think so, because you have brought up the breakup willfully in the past, and the picture of him racking his brains to coax you can’t be coaxed is vivid in my mind—the more strongly you want to get back together, the picture The more intense it is, the more you talk about compounding, the stronger the sense of need, the less he will agree, but the more disgusted you are, and the more he wants to stay away from you.

After understanding the psychological characteristics of the other party, when you can face him with emotional stability, you can effectively restore or establish a new connection. There are many ways to reconnect. As mentioned earlier, sort out your mutual friends and use them to create opportunities for you to meet again. For example, organize a party and let you meet through the event.

Many people will find that it is not so easy for the other party to let go of their hearts and accept themselves again. After breaking up, it is difficult to sit down with the other party calmly and have a good communication. At this time, many people will choose to do reconciliation to help reconcile. Harmony is to help a person change his own aura and his partner's aura through specific rituals, so that the auras of the two people can be coordinated with each other, so that the relationship will change from bad to good, strengthen fate, and let them realize their own. emotional desire. In this way, it is possible for the two to re-establish their relationship after the negative emotions of the other party disappear.

After breaking up, the contact information is blocked by the other party, what should I do if I want to ask to get back together? Everyone's specific situation is different, but there are general rules to follow. The above is a general framework. Specific problems still require specific analysis, and different strategies are required for different situations. I hope everyone can get what they want.

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