Real rich people have these 3 qualities

Really rich people have some characteristics

Some time ago, a Japanese variety show "Billion Marriage" was crazy by netizens on Weibo.

The content of the program is a bit ruined: five gold-worshiping women are going to have a blind date with a rich male guest.

The gold-worshiping women are all young and beautiful, including models, singers, female anchors, former girl group idols, and school girls.

On the other hand, the male guests are not all rich people. Among them, there are real rich people and fake ones.

The gold-worshiping women have to judge based on their words and deeds, who is the real rich man.

As long as you find out the real rich man and confess to him, he will really try to get along with you after the show.

Male No. 1, tax accountant, 31 years old, his annual income is kept secret, and he is the most handsome, so the ladies and sisters all think it is very suspicious.

Male No. 2, gym owner, usually invests in real estate, 36 years old, with an annual income of about 2.7 million yuan, looks like a replica Tao Zhe.

Male No. 3, CEO of an IT company, has the highest annual income, 600 million yen (about 36 million yuan), and his outfits are a bit fancy.

There are also men No. 4 and No. 5, who also claim to be operators of large companies.

The blind date begins. A gold-loving woman asked IT man No. 3: "Where do you usually buy clothes?"

The IT man answered without hesitation: "ZARA". Everyone present had expressions of disbelief.

After all, in the impression of most people, rich people generally wear high-end clothes and luxury goods.

And ZARA is only 100 yuan for an ordinary T-shirt. How can the rich choose such a civilian fast fashion brand?

On the other hand, the fitness man inadvertently revealed his high-end watch and revealed that he was driving an Alfa Romeo car.

When it came to the interactive part of the outdoor BBQ, the IT man took the initiative to open red wine for everyone.

Unexpectedly, the posture was not at all proficient, and the young ladies present were even more suspicious:

"Aren't rich people generally good at tasting and opening wine?"

And the fitness man who chats with the money-loving women around him, outlines his entrepreneurial experience lightly:

"Because my brother lives in Manhattan, I go by private jet once a month.

While studying art in California, I happened to learn about a popular weight loss method, and then returned to China to start a business and achieve business success. "

In contrast, the entrepreneurial experience of IT men is much simpler:

"I hate working for others, so I started my own business after working for half a year.

I'm not fit to work for other people, I have a hard time following their rules, but I like to create them. "

When asked where they usually spend their money, the IT man's idea is: spend money on experience.

It is not impossible to buy a car or a brand, but the happiness brought by these things is short-lived, and it will fall into a sense of emptiness in an instant.

So, he prefers to spend his money on traveling with friends and creating good memories.

How about it? Did you guess it.

A fitness man who wears a famous brand, wears a famous watch, and has an overseas study background is actually just an 18th-line actor, not a rich man at all.

And the IT man who wears ZARA and is not very skilled in opening red wine is a rich man who will do anything.

The IT man's real name is Takuya Fukuda, he has published a book in a magazine, and earns 600 million yen at the age of 31.

The gold-worshiping women were shocked, feeling that they had lost hundreds of millions.

In fact, the real rich people generally have the same three characteristics as IT men.

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Do not deliberately pursue luxury

I met a sister at a party, and when we chatted, I always kept the famous brand.

"I saw a Dior haute couture dress yesterday, the one worn by Angelababy, and it was so beautiful."

"Oh my God, why is that woman still carrying the LV from the past season? It's really too dirty."

"The salmon here is too stale. The Japanese food still has to go to the Chikuyotei in Ginza. That's delicious."

I thought that this sister must have a wealthy family, but I found out after inquiring:

She came to work in rural areas at the age of 16 and is now working as an administrative assistant in a foreign-funded enterprise.

Surrounded by colleagues who often travel abroad, she gradually began to be full of vanity.

LV is on the back, bought it with installment loan, and has to pay back the money as soon as the salary is paid;

I have watched a lot of Japanese dramas, but the most commonly eaten ones are not yellow stewed chicken rice and Lanzhou ramen;

I live in a 20-square-meter rental house on the edge of the city, but I always like to locate some five-star hotels in the circle of friends.

The real rich bosses will not deliberately pursue luxury goods, nor will they deliberately show off.

Jobs, wearing a black jumper, Levi's jeans and New Balance sneakers for a decade;

Zuckerberg, the round neck gray short sleeves that are always unchanged in the wardrobe;

Chow Yun-fat, wearing cheap shoes of 15 yuan, rides a bicycle to buy vegetables, and donates a net worth of 5.6 billion naked;

Wang Leehom was exposed on the show that he always wears socks full of holes, and a piece of clothing has been patched for more than ten years...

Aesthetics master Jiang Xun said it well:

"Once you deliberately go after big names, once you deliberately go along with any standards, you have lost your taste.

Taste is being yourself, knowing what you really want, and knowing how life should be lived. "

The real rich do not deliberately pursue luxury goods, but they live very tastefully.

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Likes to spend money on experience

I once asked my friends:

"In the last year, what do you think is the most worthwhile thing to spend money on?"

Someone said: "I saved two months of living expenses and went to a concert on Mayday."

Someone said: "I went to Hong Kong Disneyland with my boyfriend."

Another said: "I gave myself a vacation and spent 5 days alone in Tokyo."

No one feels that the most valuable thing to spend money on is to buy a certain item, but to buy an experience.

There is a term in psychology called "hedonic adaptation". It means that happiness is always easily adapted by the brain.

The moment we get what we dream of, we start to be less happy.

And if you spend money on experiences like buying concert tickets, taking French lessons, going to a cooking class, going on vacation to Monaco. . . . . .

Then, you will feel happier for longer.

As the psychologist Gilovich found: "Any product that brings excitement will appear mediocre after two weeks of use. But the experience will settle into a part of our self and live in our lives forever."

Really rich people generally understand this truth: spending money on experiences can bring more satisfaction than spending money on things.

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Spend your time on things of real value

Real rich people may be clumsy in life like IT men.

Because their time is spent on really valuable things.

For example, Wang Jianlin's itinerary, who once topped the circle of friends.

When I woke up at 4 in the morning, I was so busy with all kinds of work that I didn't even have time to catch my breath.

For example, during the live broadcast of the Wuzhen Internet Conference, Zhang Chaoyang revealed his tight schedule, so busy that he only slept 4 hours a day.

Go to bed at 1:00, get up at 4:30, watch the news at 5:30-6:30;

7:00-8:00 carefully prepared live content, 8:00-9:00 live broadcast, 12:00-18:00 daily meeting;

18:00-19:00 Running...

For example, Bill Gates gets up at 6:00 every morning, and he can go to work without sleep for 36 hours, and then fall back to sleep for 10 hours.

For example, Apple CEO Tim Cook gets up at 3:45 every morning, the first to arrive at the office and the last to leave.

General Electric CEO Jeff Immel, for example, has worked 100 hours a week for 24 years.

In contrast, we fish when we go to work, and chat about gossip about 539 opening numbers in the pantry;

When I get home from get off work, I browse the circle of friends, watch short videos, play games, and I don’t sleep in bed in the early morning to read cool articles.

Why do those big guys like to spend their time on work even though they are so rich?

There is a term in psychology called "flow", which refers to:

A state of mind that people are engrossed in, engrossed in, and enjoy when they are immersed in something they are working on right now.

When flow occurs, there is a high degree of excitement and fulfillment, and it is difficult to feel the passage of time.

Someone will have a flow experience when playing a game;

And the real bosses will feel the joy of selflessness when studying and working.

They like challenging projects for great satisfaction and accomplishment;

They do not like to find short-term pleasure in short videos or small games, but are more eager for fulfilling pleasures, such as deep work, reading, and fitness.

The richer people are, the more they like to spend their time on things of real value.

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write at the end

This variety show in the island country makes people ponder after watching it:

Instead of looking forward to marrying into a wealthy family, it is better to see and learn the characteristics of rich people first.

The road of life is never easy.

There is no shortcut, it is better to rely on yourself to become a real King.