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Books, don't put them on the side of the bookcase after reading them once, they must be read repeatedly in order to exert the greatest effect.

Two days ago, I went to English class with my daughter. I don’t know why he clearly understood, but when she answered she gave another answer, I immediately got angry, ran and shouted loudly, and immediately regretted it after a few seconds. ..........

At night, my daughter was naughty and deliberately hit me again. At this moment, I finally couldn't hold back my anger. I simply took action and hit her on the thigh hard, and she immediately cried bitterly with an innocent face... ...... Seeing her like this, I immediately regretted it again....... My heart hurts terribly...............

Day after day, month after month, it's this cycle... hooting, then roaring, and regretting.... When can I get out of this vicious circle? ? I often say to myself, the mother who is in front of the child 24/7, never has a rest day, is on duty 24 hours a day, this job is extremely stressful, and it is the hardest... It's normal to have a temper. but! !

Am I the only one full-time mother in this world? Am I the only one who has two treasures in this world? Am I the only one in this world who feels hard, physically and mentally tired, and feels super powerless? I'm convinced that mothers all over the world can survive like this, the only difference is their mood and ability! !

I am a shopaholic, I like to buy books very much, but I bought and read them, but I quickly forgot all the knowledge I have read. As a person, I like to rationalize and make excuses for my own mistakes. I used to be able to get by, but now my identity has changed. If I am a mother, I can imagine how my own daughter will be in the future... .....

Children's ability to imitate is super strong, and teaching by example is very important. As an unqualified mother, I really need to make up for it. I should add more value to myself, stop everything, and don't give a quick response after thinking about it. It should be better for children. !






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