"Pin boy" bad mother: reluctant to quit breastfeeding.

Xiaoxiong 2Y is almost 3M. I have communicated with him many times. He has no intention of weaning. In addition, many people reminded his parents that divorce will make him feel more insecure, so he has to wait until he is willing, and stop saying I should quit. .

During the confinement period, the breastfeeding knowledge given by the center staff was incorrect, which caused the bear to not like to breastfeed, but I am very fortunate that after the confinement, I can return to full breastfeeding with the assistance of a lactation consultant. Why do I do this? How about trying to recover the whole pro-feeding? !

Because my baby is very sensitive and a high-need baby, breastfeeding is the best source of security, and I won't say much about other benefits. During this period, someone said, "I can't breastfeed because you are breastfeeding!"

At the time I could only ask him to let me feed for at least a year, someone denied it when I went to court, maybe he forgot.

After we started breastfeeding, we had a lot of pictures that the two of us only had when we were breastfeeding. The camera couldn't capture them. I thought of the sweet pictures in the future. The feeling of being completely needed is most obvious at this time. , maybe also the source of my sense of security!

Now more than 2 years old, I usually take naps and beg for milk countless times before going to bed and in the middle of the night. I am really tired. I tried to be cruel to not give it in the middle of the night, but he would turn around for a long time and couldn’t fall asleep, and then give him it close to the time to get up in the morning. I will go back to sleep again. I think this routine will be messed up, so I have to wait for him to make up for his sense of security.

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The verdict hasn't come down yet, of course I hope he can be by my side, I just need to deal with the annoying people occasionally, but I can't meet again if I'm not by my side. I don't care if they will stop me, I can't step into that haunted house myself. So it depends on the child's own destiny. At this time, I will feel that it is fortunate that I have insisted on breastfeeding.

Unexpectedly, after disappearing for a long time and then coming back, this is actually the situation. I returned to my hometown of Tainan with my child and became a single mother. It will be ten months since I came back. Help, we can't live too badly. There must be many reasons for a marriage to fail. There must be problems on both sides, and I don't want to live like that again. After returning, the child's father gave very little child support, which was insufficient. The part of the family is helped by the parents. The child is still full-time and brought by himself. If there is a chance next year, let him study!

Take a little time to design baby hand-made products, and gradually enter the track (introduced next time), no matter what, my children and dogs will work hard to live! :)