You don't want to listen to me

Once when I was teaching a student in mathematics, I kept stressing the way some formulas were categorized and asked him to memorize them, but he seemed to have a hard time listening to what I said and memorizing what I wanted him to understand. Thing, this made the one-and-a-half-hour class a waste of my and his time, but what made me think at the moment was whether it wasn't just the student's problem, I also lacked the ability to attract his attention.

To be honest, whether you can open the ears of students is the watershed that distinguishes ordinary teachers from top teachers. However, as you get older, you will gradually find that not only educators, but almost all occupations need this skill, especially when you need to contact people. profession, often the conversation ends before the conversation begins.

In order to improve the ability of communication, I have listened to the suggestions of many people. Among them, the most shocking thing is to open my ears. If I regard myself as the source of information, and the other party is the receiver of information, as the receiver One party must turn on the "switch", just like Wi-Fi, the network can only be opened when it is turned on, and sometimes the network cannot run.

The human brain will decide whether to open its ears and choose whether to receive information from the other party as soon as it sees the receiving point. Or dress and listen to each other's words carefully and carefully.

Sometimes communication cannot go smoothly, it is not necessarily your fault. There are various reasons for this problem, and there must be people who are willing to listen to you. You should save your energy and put it on those who are willing to listen to you. People, no matter how reluctant they are, they must accept this. It is impossible for everyone to listen to you, and it is impossible for everyone to be attracted by what you say. I used to blame myself for my relationship that prevented students from learning from me. The content of what was taught, it took me a long time to accept the fact that it was not my problem.