There is a kind of cleverness called cold processing

In life, it is inevitable to be misunderstood and criticized. Some people can't figure it out and choose to be sullen; some people have to argue and choose right and wrong; some people are not popular and choose to fight to the end.

As everyone knows, losing your temper is instinct, but choosing not to lose your temper is a skill. When there is anger in your heart, it is the smartest way to calm down and deal with it.

When people are angry, they often cannot control their emotions. Let feelings of anger, entanglement, and despair run wild.

But this not only does not solve any problems, but also often destroys their own happy life. Every time you get angry, the one who hurts the most is yourself.

Jin Wushu died of anger after being ridden by Niu Gao; Zhou Yu was embarrassed by Zhuge Liang.

These examples all tell us that getting angry is the stupidest and most useless thing in the world. It is like a negative energy that only drags us into the abyss of despair.

People live a lifetime, if you can look down on everything and others, you will naturally have less troubles.

There is really no need to punish yourself for other people's faults, and there is no need to hurt yourself for a momentary impulse.

Take a step back, take a step back, and endure the calm for a while. Having a good attitude is the real winner in life.

In this world, emotions are like a double-edged sword.

Controlled properly, it can enrich people's energy and physical strength, and can also improve the efficiency of people's activities; if not controlled, it will make people uncomfortable, make us irritable and impulsive, and ultimately hurt others and ourselves.

In fact, emotions are neither good nor bad. What hurts us is just inappropriate management.

Only by learning to control your emotions can you control your life.

There is no need to suppress happiness when you encounter it, sharing can spread everywhere; anger in your heart is decisively controlled, otherwise it will only spread everywhere.

A person can control his emotions and set his mood, and then there is a winning situation in life.

I remember reading this sentence: "At any time, a person should not be a slave to his own emotions, and should not make all actions subject to his own emotions, but should control his emotions in turn."

Don't let the double-edged sword of emotions hurt yourself, learn to ease and accept, and be a person with stable emotions.

In this life, calmness is the most elegant gesture.

When a person is angry, he can still think rationally and give himself room to maneuver, which is a kind of mature wisdom and ability.

In particular, being able to be non-impulsive and prevent conflicts from escalating is a manifestation of strong self-confidence and a kind of self-cultivation in dealing with the world.

As the saying goes, if things are urgent, they should be slow, and if things are slow, they will be round.

Acting impulsive, most of them will only regret their own recklessness, and feel ashamed for each other's impulsiveness.

Therefore, when we cannot change others, we might as well try to change ourselves, learn to let go of conflicts, put away our anger, and learn to deal with them coldly.

Although there are three thousand troubles in life, as long as you deal with them calmly, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.

I believe that the haze will eventually dissipate, and the light will be in front of you.