Daily Thoughts｜Love is the most luxurious and precious gift in the world

Zhuyin: ㄞˋ ｜Radical: Xin｜ Hanyu Pinyin: ài

☉ Noun: the person or thing you like ☉ Verb: like, love ☉ Adjective: love

It is not necessary to be together forever to be called love. The Buddha said: "Depending on origin and cessation, everything has a certain number."

Just like the golden sentence in the Korean drama "Move to Heaven: I'm the Relic Organizer": "When it's time to leave, how beautiful is the back that turns decisively."

All the relationships in the world come and go like waves. Despite the turbulent undercurrents, after being overturned and ashore, they still fade away and eventually return to their own place. This is the script we wrote for ourselves from the very beginning.

Behind every love, there is an intimate relationship, and these relationships are self-independent and have no concept of division. To make the intimate relationship lasting and close, it depends on the presence and resonance.

However, since last year, the whole world has begun to face the test of the epidemic. Uneasy and uneasy are the feelings of most people. You don’t have to face the test of isolation, you can still live peacefully and ordinary days, but this kind of ordinaryness is something that many people can’t have, so it makes me realize that “every day of my life is really precious. day

In the past, I didn't like to express "love" very much, and I wasn't very good at expressing it. Even now, I can't fully internalize the expression for "love" people to know, but since I started trying to "implement it", my life changed again

1. Go home regularly to spend time with family members, and give each other a hug before turning around and leaving (for those who dare not hug, you can make a small heart gesture ❤︎ )
2. If you can't go home, you have to make regular calls. After the call, say "love you" before hanging up.
3. On the road, smile or nod to strangers you have never met

At the beginning of the implementation, of course, it will inevitably be a little uncomfortable, because there are many times, only oneself is doing it, but the other party's reaction may be "no response", or "embarrassed smile", or it may be revealed inexplicably "Are you okay?", and if you are lucky, you may receive a "warm response"

However, this practice of expressing "love" is to prevent myself from regretting, not to do it deliberately, so even if most of the other parties are indifferent, it still keeps pouring out my "three minutes of enthusiasm"

After a few months, hehe...

1. My family's nearly 92-year-old Huang Fama "Grandpa" can say "I love you" to me in Taiwanese Mandarin
   *Recently, when we are ready to go back to work, we also start to make small love gestures ❤︎
2. My uncle, who was separated from his family due to the epidemic, will definitely say "I love you" to me before hanging up after returning to Malaysia.
3. In the coffee shop, even wearing a mask, Adouzai and Adouzai confirm through each other's eyes that as long as they are fully worn, they will not be afraid of external virus threats, and their hearts will also be warm, because we are on the most beautiful and safest island.

This is something I never expected, and the first two are strong-looking male elders. When they were growing up, they often used actions instead of spoken love. More often, it may be that when they think When he said it, the other party was no longer there.

Like, 3 years ago, I saw that my grandpa, in grandma's mourning hall, just stood quietly and looked at the photos, with subtle words in his mouth. From the lips, I saw that Grandpa said "I love you" when he finally turned around. Even the tears were kept in his eyes, and the moment it dripped, the handkerchief quickly disappeared. We were afraid that he would not be able to carry him for more than 70 years. The fact that his wife left.

After the ceremony, when I got home, I watched Grandpa silently take off the calendar board that was written on every day, and wrote Grandma's death day on it with a signature pen. At that moment, I realized that, except for Aihua In addition to action, it is necessary to grasp the moment, act immediately, and not let oneself have any regret or remorse when it is lost.

Let us make a promise to embrace every day in the future from now on

With love, let's face the next challenges together and pass on love to more "people you love" and "people who love you"

Because I don't have superpowers, I can't know when impermanence will come, so I have to seize the moment and cherish the opportunity to get along with people around me

Farewells and pain are things that the school has never taught, but no matter how dark the fear is, please believe that there will always be a ray of light to move forward.

Knowing and doing, there are many things in life, you can't wait, but you can't rush

Thank you for being in front of the screen. After reading this daily essay patiently, I wish you all the best and peace, cherish the moment together, and welcome to leave a message to share and communicate with each other :)